u/Beezy3zy

My wife and I flew in town for my sisters graduation the next day where my mom and other sister were also attending. They have know for over a week what time we would land and were still over an hour late picking us up. After flying for the entire day, instead of dropping us at the hotel they all got in one car and made us wait while they drove to the location and walked from the parking spot to the actual building to see the route ahead of time. When I asked why they couldn’t have picked us up first they said it’s because my mother didn’t finish work until 5 and doesn’t see well at night so they had to go right now. They have three cars between them and still refused to make any concessions that would have gotten us to the hotel or even gotten us food. After this we decided to simply skip the graduation and return home. Am I the asshole?

Edit: we did say that we were hungry and the week before they flew to my wife’s graduation in which my mom did not attend due to not liking flying. They were picked up on time and I took them to the hotel and then to get food even when we were moving out of our apartment at the time