He arrived drunk on 1st date
I met someone on Bumble, and it seemed like he was a descent guy. We talked for a full week before we met, and the conversations were so good. We talked about everything and had so much in common. We also discussed what we were looking for, he did not want a fwb, nor was he looking for a hook up, we both had serious intentions. Both are 36.
We would meet up for drinks last weekend, I was very excited for it. We would meet at 9pm at the station, and would walk together to the place for drinks. While I was on my way he texted he was already on the square (where the place of drinks was) because he hung out with a few friends last minute. Okay, that’s fine, I would simply meet him at the square.
I saw him from a distance, he looked like the pictures. And I saw he recognized me as well. As I was walking towards me, instead of walking to me as well, he was just staring with this weird half happy look. It’s a big square so the walking was super awkward, walking in heels so didn’t want to trip or anything, but oh well, that’s a me problem.
We met, I could smell the beer. I thought oh maybe he had just one beer, idk. That was fine. We walked into the place, and I could feel his eyes just scanning my body. (I just had heels with flare jeans and a top, nothing sexy). We sat down, ordered drinks and started to talk. That’s when I realized he had more than 1 beer, so I just asked if he’s drunk. He said he had a few drinks with his friends. And then the waiter arrived with his beer and my drink. I asked if it wasn’t better if he just had water, he just ignored that and said: “you look hot”.
I got a brain freeze from how fast I was drinking my cocktail. I asked the waiter for the bill so I could pay. And he asked if the date is over. I said “yes, you’re not really enjoyable”. He responded with a heavy horny line with what he wanted to do to me. I was so embarrassed. Waiter arrived, I paid and grabbed my coat. As he was searching for his sleeve in the coat I just walked away.
Yesterday he texted me saying he’s sorry and doesn’t usually behave like that. He said he was so nervous for the date, that he went for a few drinks to calm down but unfortunately had too many. He says he really likes me and he asks for a second chance. I said no. But it really frustrates me because he was the first match I actually had great conversations with.
Dating is hard, sorry for the long post.