Hello I've never posted to reddit before but I need some unbiased relationship advice. So, basically what i've been struggling with is I've been thinking about my ex boyfriend we broke up about 2 years ago and have had no contact since. It was a bad break up it ended with him telling me not to contact him although I still love him, I don't want to contact him. I want to respect his boundaries. Other than the messy breakup, our relationship was pretty solid. We argued like every couple . But overall it was true love. We talked every day fell asleep on the phone. This was long distance relationship. He was my first real boyfriend after coming out as gay i've thought about him every day since the breakup. And I just can't get him out of my mind no matter how hard I try And I know some people are gonna say that. I'm young and I'll move on. And I get that eventually, but it has been 2 years, and I still haven't, so what do I do right now? And also, some people are gonna say, it's long distance it Doesn't work And that's not a really relationship.I don't believe that.So, my question is, what do I do to move on?
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Hello I've never posted to reddit before but I need some unbiased relationship advice. So, basically what i've been struggling with is I've been thinking about my ex boyfriend we broke up about 2 years ago and have had no contact since. It was a bad break up it ended with him telling me not to contact him although I still love him, I don't want to contact him. I want to respect his boundaries. Other than the messy breakup, our relationship was pretty solid. We argued like every couple . But overall it was true love. We talked every day fell asleep on the phone. This was long distance relationship. He was my first real boyfriend after coming out as gay i've thought about him every day since the breakup. And I just can't get him out of my mind no matter how hard I try And I know some people are gonna say that. I'm young and I'll move on. And I get that eventually, but it has been 2 years, and I still haven't, so what do I do right now? And also, some people are gonna say, it's long distance it Doesn't work And that's not a really relationship.I don't believe that.So, my question is, what do I do to move on?