Had a tattoo done on a Friday the 13th deal. Asked the shop over the phone and explained I got it done and they said come in to speak to us and you can work something out with the artist. Came in and they said it could have been a healing issue and I would have to pay to touch it up. Is that normal? I made sure to follow instructions after to the T.
I was ghosted by a man I knew for 5 years. Talked on and off as friends. I talked to him in a romantic when I was single then when I got broken up with on time. We were supposed to meet but he did a no show and I cancelled once. Then I was in a rocky relationship but we met up as friends. He kissed me and I was like woah I’m not ready. He said sorry I just really wanted to. Then later on he kept messaging and I didn’t respond that much given my situation and he said he understood. Finally broke up with him and he seemed super excited and said he loved me and even said I can stay with him when or as long as I wanted(I have my own place but I declined cause he lived with family and I didn’t want to intrude) also he lived 3 hours away and a lot of driving hurts after back surgery so he agreed to see me and stay weekends at mine. I thought it was odd he said he loved me but thought hey I’m gonna give him a chance. My ex left so I was dealing with some aftermath but informed him we would take it slow and he agreed. Then we meet up half way, date goes great and I send him a text and notice it didn’t go through. Messages are getting farther apart and communication is going cold. So he messages and said he’s been busy and talk later and that he will explain so I give him a little space, no response. I also don’t even bring up him blocking my number so I continued to message on fb. Then he doesn’t respond and then I told him to forget it. I don’t need an explanation and he blocks me on fb. This is the first ghosting that has ever hurt me this much. I know it will pass but man it stings. We spent hours on the phone and playing games. I know some people are there for the season but damn it hurts.
A couple things escalated to the point where I had to call the police. He had broken numerous things of mine. But this most recent time he forced me to go to his family event and said if I didn’t bring him, he’d break everything I own in the middle of going I stopped at a gas station and called the police. He threatened to kill me, but they didn’t arrest him. Instead he ran away and he left. This is the first time I called the cops, even though he broke my stuff before. Yes I know it’s the right thing for him to be gone and I’m hoping for good this time. I had told him before that we could not live together because he is this way and he won’t keep a job. Even even though we agreed not to live together he’s like no I live here. He only keeps a job for a couple weeks and then quits and I’m not buying him a car and he needs to save up for it. But anyways, I’m just over it. I had a fight or flight response and I couldn’t feel my legs, my hands. Everything felt numb. The cop asked me well. Do you think he would do it when I told him that he threatened me. And I was like yeah I mean while he’s broken my stuff. Yes I’m still sad about things and missing him. The good times I mean, but I do feel some relief. Because I know it’s not normal and it keeps getting worse and worse like it’s OK for three weeks and then boom like he flies off the handle when I say no to anything taking my car or anything.