Me F (31) & M (30).
I had been seeing this guy I matched from a dating app for almost two months. on the the 5-6 date he brought up the topic of seeing other people, saying it would be very weird if I was. I asked him what he meant and if the thing would have bothered him. he said that yes, it would not sit well with him. Well, after that we had another talk through text to clarify the situation. I told him I did not want to see other people/ keep meeting other people since he asked me about it. I have also asked him to let me know if he was on the same page and if he wasn’t, no problem, but that I just thought we could talk it out since he introduced the topic. He said he was seeing me only and he was not interested in seeing other people. That same night I noticed he added a picture to his dating app profile. I was hurt but let it slide at the time.
During one of the dates and also via text as well, he mentioned he wanted to go on a trip with me and asked for availability. I gave him the dates. Since then, I had not heard from him about the trip and we had been texting normally. He explicitly said he wanted to organize so I trusted his word. Few days before the trip, I asked for more information and he told me on one of the days he would have work but it would be decided last minute, and if we had to go we would have to go a couple days earlier. Since the availability I gave him was during an holiday, I felt sad cause if I wasn’t traveling with him I would have planned something on my own. Also he had clarified he would plan and organize so I was really disappointed with the sudden change of plans and we ended up having a disagreement. At the end of yesterday we made peace and everything seemed well. Despite that, I had a nasty feeling and checked the app again only to find out he had updated his introduction and modified pictures. I then held him accountable and told him I could not trust him and cut him off. I am not feeling sad though because I miss talking to him. I think I’m writing here because I need a word of comfort and to know I am not the weird one for cutting him off and having these feelings about him :( anyone with a similar experience?
\*\*TL;DR; : was it ok to cut my losses when receiving mixed signals? \*\*.