u/Babyblueunicorn2024

So I had a fling with a man and it was all fun till it wasnt. He didnt want a relationship and we mutually ended since it wasnt going anywhere. Anyways he has attempted to follow me on social medica but I deny his request. At one point I had feelings for him but he made sure to destroy and feelings that I had for him. He has my number and occasionally we will say hello cordial. But I am not interested in anything else. Seems like he was deeply offended that I didnt accept his friend request. I am bot interested in knowing abt his life or seeing him post thing etc. Any advice will be good! We dont really talk often but is it best to just not talk to him? Is it worth it to explain it? It just never felt like we were friends even if he claims we did.

So my friend and I were talking about this. He claims he has friends he hooks-up with then later it can change to a relationship. That seems dumb to me. Like I had men approach me and made it clear they want to date me. So I feel like theres intent. Is it normal for ppl to want to hookup in hope it changes. Like I wouldnt be able to sleep with someone that I know is getting around. But he makes it seem like my thought process is wrong. Thoughts?