u/Away-Royal5569

Image 1 — Nipple discharge when squeezed (not pregnant)
Image 2 — Nipple discharge when squeezed (not pregnant)
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Nipple discharge when squeezed (not pregnant)

21f Both nipples, yellowish clear and it has a glue consistency to it. It dries like glue, crumbly and crunchy. I took 2 pregnancy tests and im not pregnant. I dont know if this is normal or if I should go to the Dr.

u/Away-Royal5569 — 4 days ago

Please be kind, I need advice/reassurance

So I (f 21) have been with my partner (m 22) for 3 years in October. We were long distance for a long time, then lived together recently in his city for 6 months, then he decided to join the Marine reserves, so I had to come back to live with my family. (He lives in nyc so its too expensive anyway). He has always had a hard time showing his emotions to me (or anyone) his family is Hispanic and he has parents who believe men who show emotions or cry are weak/aren't men. Which i think is obviously ridiculous and awful. He was told never to cry and to keep everything in.

Our relationship has always been built on communication and I worked with him on telling me how he's really feeling. Emotional depth and intelligence is very important to me, and he was willing to work in it so we did. He was JUST getting to the point where he was able to open up to me normally/regularly without me having to ask him in various ways what he was feeling/giving him time to come to me. He used to never complain to me because he didnt want to be a "bother", but we'd gotten to the point where if something pissed him off, he'd let me know, or if something went wrong or not how he wanted it to.

Basically he grew emotionally, and im scared the Marines are going to undo all that growth. I know some people exaggerate, or want people to think they're tough, but I love this man, and emotional honesty is important and I want to have children with him someday. I wan our kids to have a father who tells them its okay to have feelings.

So hes in bootcamp right now, and im scared he will throw those "soft" qualities in the shitter and become a "hard" "rough and tough" man. Please tell me if you have a partner/spouse in the marines, and if theyre able to separate work from home. Being a "marine" and being a caring, loving, gentle, emotionally aware person.

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u/Away-Royal5569 — 6 days ago

Hello! I am looking fo a recommendation on a 150 gallon enclosure. I found some in chewy but id like some people who know more about corn snakes to weigh in before I commit. She's an adult, about 3.5 feet long. She LOVES burrowing and moving around, she's gotten a lot more active as she's grown up. I need something thats not going to break the bank, I think $700 or so is the highest I could go right now. Right now she's in a 75 gallon and I need to get her out of it. I haven't had money till now.

Any recommendations are great, im so excited to get one for her!

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u/Away-Royal5569 — 13 days ago

Hi, my partner is going through bootcamp at parris island sc and he has two last names, (no middle name) for example, let's say his name is: Jake Lopez Smith. The address his mother said the recruiter gave her had his name addressed as: Lopezsmith, Jake.

I know its last name then first name, but im just wondering if its really the two last names pushed together like that? It seems wrong. I've texted his recruiter but me and my partner are long distance and have been for 3 years, and he lives 4hrs away from me. His recruiter told me to stop in the office in person and he'd give it to me, but obviously I can't just drop everything and go right now. Im just wondering if this is a common way to address marine recruits with two last names.

Im just so anxious to send him mail and I want to make sure it gets to him, as his mom isnt always 100% on everything she tells me.

Thank you for any advice.

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u/Away-Royal5569 — 14 days ago