u/Away-Cupcake3332

22F met an amazing guy (23M) online but scared he won’t like me in person

Hey everyone, I just need some advice. I’ve been talking to this guy for a few weeks, and we call every single day, we text constantly, like constantly. We literally are just perfect. Our emotional connection is just off the charts. We’re on the same wavelength when it comes to love and the future and just like future wants in terms of family, just like he’s the whole package. We also had a minor misunderstanding on a comment he said like “that’s insane” when I said something like “I’m gonna show up to your house and surprise you for your birthday” and he spent most of the time apologizing for making me feel that way and clarifying it saying he meant it in a laughing way because he actually loves that idea, and saying if it’s something that would bother me again in the future to let him know. And it’s just so clear how we feel about each other.

But we met on a dating app, and my photos from earlier in the year and I’ve been dealing with some stress the last few months and I have hormonal acne and it gave me some hyperpigmentation on my cheeks so now I have brown spots. I’m just really nervous that when we meet, he’ll see that and maybe it’ll change how he feels. I know attraction is very important and I guess I’m just worried because it’s something I can’t control. We FaceTimed like one time but I’m pretty sure my hair was covering my cheeks since I had it down because I washed it. So it’s just extra nerves on top of that. Has anyone been in a similar place that could give me some tips please?

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u/Away-Cupcake3332 — 4 days ago

(22F) met an amazing guy (23M) online but scared he won’t like me in person

Hey everyone, I just need some advice. I’ve been talking to this guy for a few weeks, and we call every single day, we text constantly, like constantly. We literally are just perfect. Our emotional connection is just off the charts. We’re on the same wavelength when it comes to love and the future and just like future wants in terms of family, just like he’s the whole package. We also had a minor misunderstanding on a comment he said like “that’s insane” when I said something like “I’m gonna show up to your house and surprise you for your birthday” and he spent most of the time apologizing for making me feel that way and clarifying it saying he meant it in a laughing way because he actually loves that idea, and saying if it’s something that would bother me again in the future to let him know. And it’s just so clear how we feel about each other.

But we met on a dating app, and my photos from earlier in the year and I’ve been dealing with some stress the last few months and I have hormonal acne and it gave me some hyperpigmentation on my cheeks so now I have brown spots. I’m just really nervous that when we meet, he’ll see that and maybe it’ll change how he feels. I know attraction is very important and I guess I’m just worried because it’s something I can’t control. We FaceTimed like one time but I’m pretty sure my hair was covering my cheeks since I had it down because I washed it. So it’s just extra nerves on top of that. Has anyone been in a similar place that could give me some tips please?

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u/Away-Cupcake3332 — 4 days ago