Should I wait to have sex?
I want to explore and have sex with different people because I’m scared I’ll regret missing out later. At the same time, I’ve always fantasized about waiting for the right person I truly love, and losing my virginity to them.
The problem is I’m starting to think that perfect scenario might never actually happen. Dating is already hard, trust is hard, and the idea of holding out forever just to maybe end up disappointed feels worse than just going for it now. Part of me worries that if I do have sex with other people, I’ll lose the ability to ever have that “pure” cherished experience I fantasized about… but another part of me thinks that’s probably just idealized nonsense and I should live in reality.
Anyone been in the same spot? Did you wait or explore and how do you feel about your choice now? Especially want non-religious takes. I could really use some outside perspective!