Bad friend breakup I can’t get over.
So, a couple years ago, I had a really good friend that was like my sister. (27f) She was a bit immature in the sense she would prioritize “getting dick” over just about everything in her life.
That aside, we managed to get a lot of good conversations, she had a lot of great perspectives, insights and that was my “get money gurllll” as we were always about the bag. And we’ve made a lot of money together. I brought her on a job, and she made things so much more organized and better overall.
On one of these jobs (and I know this was bad practice, but I brought one of my old hook ups to fill a position temporarily because I was in desperate need as a supervisor to fill the position for my company
After the job, she remain in contact with 🍆, even though she knows he was hard to work with being his manager. She ended up giving him a job.( a position I didn’t want)
Long story short they start having sex. I was so irritated that he didn’t disclose that and I’m not the type to like place limits on my friends or judgmental you do what you wanna do
But since then, I’ve hated that man forever because my girl deserves better than someone who lives in his mom‘s basement and don’t pay rent. Someone who makes you wait two hours on your own birthday to go see a movie.
But I was still supportive in her talking to him, because I’m supportive to my friends, no matter what. We may disagree, but I can’t judge you for something you’ve had no idea about
Then she got a tattoo of his name. No. Worse. She got “future Ms. XXX” tatted on the back of her neck. Mind you. She’s hi-Yella.
I thought that was so tacky, and wanted to curse her out so bad. But I didn’t say anything.
…For months…
I just didn’t have anything positive to say to her.
Then when I reached out. She called me weird 😭 for even saying anything.
*sigh*.
tbh, I can’t stand that she needs her life to be so 🍆 centered. I miss my friend.
Any advice?