u/Ashwind0dragon

I am hoping that there are others dealing with the difficulties of finding a suitable therapist who can navigate this particular facet of neurodivergence and the fundamental subtleties that it carries into a therapeutic environment. Focusing on general things such as ability to convey information or understanding what life as a gifted person entails, above my personalized needs, yet.

I have searched far and wide and have not been able to find a professional who 'gets it'; Any recommendations on how to find a good pairing?

For anyone who is deeply struggling with figuring out for once and for all if their partner is 'that bad', 'actually a Narcissist or just immature', or 'has any hope of changing': A really simple test is to ask them a straightforward question.

Why is it important to you that I am happy?

What is your favorite thing about our child?

Why is it important for you to show me that you love me?

You will very quickly get an answer your brain will never be able to forget or ignore. Either way positive or negative they will answer a question that you otherwise might spend entire years trying to guess around and figure out yourself. Just let them answer.