u/Artistic-Bet733 — reddlx

Do you think he wants to see me?

For context, I don’t want to ‘spin the block’ I simply just want to hang out and be friends. We always had such a good friendship anyway and we have loads in common. We were together for 2 years and I haven’t spoken to him for 7 months. I was in a short relationship (see mentioned in the screenshots) so I understand if he doesn’t want to see me. My intentions are pure.

Anyway, from this chat alone, do you think he’d want to hang out again? He hasn’t responded obviously but do you think there’s a chance?

u/Artistic-Bet733 — 2 days ago

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My BF told me he is trans

Me (18F) and my boyfriend (MtF 19) told me he’s transgender last night. He told me he was bi a few months ago and that didn’t bother me, I am too. Ever since he told me last night, I’ve been so confused. I love him so much. He is the best person I have ever met, he is my bestfriend. (Currently not using she/her pronouns because I just found out and he isn’t comfortable embracing it yet)

He won’t come out anytime soon, I know that for sure. And I just don’t know if I can stay with him. The first reason is because I can’t be with someone who doesn’t love their true self. And he really doesn’t. Secondly, I know him as my boyfriend, I am in love with his masculinity. Everything he hates about himself, I love. Despite being attracted to women too, I don’t want to lose the man I fell in love with.
My family love him too. I don’t know what the fuck I am doing. It’s obvious I should leave because we are incompatible, I just wanted to get this off my chest.

We’ve been together 6 months btw. Not long I know but we are extremely close. He literally works with my mum…

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u/Artistic-Bet733 — 4 days ago

▲ 70 r/UniUK

(18F) I’m at the end of my first year studying accounting and finance and I dislike it immensely. I’ve considered myself finished with uni. My course is soul-destroying. I was highly considering starting a politics degree next academic year at the same university, however I can just read books (which I already do) if I want to learn even more about politics.

I am in an extremely good position financially. I live with my mum and sister and only pay £30 a week whilst having a stable part-time job at a chip shop close by. My mum has no intention of increasing my rent, even if I get a full-time job. This means I can save up for the next few years whilst gaining industry experience.

I feel that university will not help me as much as entering the workforce will, however I know that having a university degree is valued socially. Will people assume I am not as smart as others because I have not attained a degree? I understand that the opinions of others are not worth thinking about, but I can’t help but feel like I am ‘not enough’.

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u/Artistic-Bet733 — 9 days ago