u/Artistic-Access6018

Is anyone else over the Deep Winter "starter pack"? Every time I look for hair inspo, it’s just an endless sea of dark chocolate brown or burgundy. Like, don't get me wrong, they’re fine, but they feel so boring! I want something that actually fits my palette and high contrast but has some personality.

Has anyone tried something different that still feels harmonious???

I wanted to change my hair, but I'm thinking about it a lot, since I value both recommendations.

I'm an flamboyant gamine, and I really love contrast, color-blocking... Even in casual style, I'm still relatively bold. Kibbe's recommendations for my hair, besides the short length, are intense colors, avoid softening, no highlights...

Examples: Jet Black, Platinum Blonde, Fiery Ginger. Solid colors.

But on the other hand, I'm a soft summer type. My contrast is medium to low, and I have to put in a lot of effort to wear colors like black, for example. The recommendations are for soft colors, but I feel washed out. I wish I could go back to being a redhead!

Examples: Ash brown. Mousy brown. Dusty Blonde.

Is there any way I can balance this? Any suggestions for a color that's somewhere in between? 🤕💞

I wanted to change my hair, but I'm thinking about it a lot, since I value both recommendations.

I'm an flamboyant gamine, and I really love contrast, color-blocking... Even in casual style, I'm still relatively bold. Kibbe's recommendations for my hair, besides the short length, are intense colors, avoid softening, no highlights...

Examples: Jet Black, Platinum Blonde, Fiery Ginger. Solid colors.

But on the other hand, I'm a soft summer type. My contrast is medium to low, and I have to put in a lot of effort to wear colors like black, for example. The recommendations are for soft colors, but I feel washed out. I wish I could go back to being a redhead!

Examples: Ash brown. Mousy brown. Dusty Blonde.

Is there any way I can balance this? 🤕💞

I'm feeling very bad and would like to hear opinions from spiritualized people who won't say it was "just a dream"—Taking into account my past with spirits, which I will recount in this post.

First, I need to say that it's not part of my values to get involved with committed people, quite the opposite.

Contextualizing something very important: I have never been involved with anyone, not even kissed, even as an adult. Besides other factors, a large part of this is because I grew up accompanied by a spirit from a past life, with whom I was involved, who decided not to reincarnate to accompany me. We were separated in the past and he didn't want to distance himself from me again.

I know the complete story, which has been confirmed by different visions and different trusted mediums.

He never harmed me, and he guided me a lot at the beginning of my spiritual journey. We always communicated. But not everything is flowers, rainbows and unicorns. He never let any man get close to me: Either I was invisible or I was scary. In some cases, I would start to feel an inexplicable rage just being near people I knew this spirit considered a threat.

My spirit guides drove him away, and I severed ties with him. My body and mind went through an overwhelming grief that took me five months to get out of bed.

It was very heavy, and I still find myself crying about it sometimes. I miss him terribly.

In these communications with guides and him over the years, I began to learn to differentiate dreams from visions/warnings. In all my dreams, I am being stalked/hunted, all without exception—but in visions, the clarity of the images and voices is different, and there is no hunting.

Three weeks ago, I received a vision. I was embracing this college classmate, with whom I get along relatively well. In the vision, I heard my voice saying, "But he's committed, it's not possible," and I know that a consciousness that wasn't mine responded something along the lines of "It's inevitable, it will be."

I had never seen him this way before, but since then it seems like everything is arranged so that we're together, physically or not. Even when we go on group dates with people from college, it's always just the two of us. We end up going out to eat, play games, and other things, just the two of us, completely unplanned. And when the group dates go well, he always ends up staying by my side, or acting possessively towards me.

I don't see any bad intentions; I think he doesn't even realize it. But it's eating me up inside because he's in a relationship, wears a ring and everything, and I don't want to disrespect his relationship in any way.

I don't know what to do. Should I completely cut off contact, let things flow, ignore the signal? How do I proceed? He and his girlfriend seem happy together, but he's been in a long-distance relationship for, I believe, a year now. But even so, I don't think this closeness is right.

I don't know how I should feel or what to do; I feel guilty and dirty just writing this post, and it's very conflicting because we get along very well. Am I overthinking it? I feel like a mess!