u/ArmadilloNo2504

new guy at my office flirted with me right from the first day. liked him back, flirted back. then he asked me out and we have been seeing each other for lie 5 weeks since then. told him we need to disclose to HR as they have a vv strict policy about this and if we get caught we could get fired.

he said he didn't wanna go public yet, and i'm ok with that but we still need to disclose it. he refuses. would i be overreacting if i broke up with him over this? the only other option I see is going behind his back and I don't feel comfortable doing that?

new guy at my office flirted with me right from the first day. liked him back, flirted back. then he asked me out and we have been seeing each other for lie 5 weeks since then. told him we need to disclose to HR as they have a vv strict policy about this and if we get caught we could get fired.

he said he didn't wanna go public yet, and i'm ok with that but we still need to disclose it. he refuses. would i be overreacting if i broke up with him over this? the only other option I see is going behind his back and I don't feel comfortable doing that