u/Anxious-Principle979

I met up with this guy who I’ve known for a while but it was always just friendly (it then turned into romantic talking) on Saturday and we had sex. It was really really fun, I was his first but I’m now nervous that ive become really attached/obsessed with him. I’ve had sex with other people in the past but none have made me feel this way wich is why I’m really confused as to why I feel like this because it’s not like I know him extremely well etc. why why why why why!!!

Long story short I met up with this guy (who I already knew before through friends but it was just friendly) as we had been chatting for over a week via text. I have grown to really like him. We met up, had some drinks, chatted etc but then we went back to his and became very intimate and had sex and did other stuff etc. it was great, I was his first and it was really nice but now I’m stuck in a state of confusion and I am afraid I’m becoming very attached/obsessed with him. I’ve had sex with other people in the past but I’ve never felt this ‘attached’ feeling after anyone before. I don’t know what to do, do I speak to him and have that annoying ‘what are we’ conversation? Or do I just do the nonchalant act and see if it progresses naturally. Any advice would be much appreciated

I am a young adult but I have lived in London my entire life. I’ve been going on public transport since I was a young teen since I went to school in the depths of Croydon so I am used to seeing abnormal things and just putting them past me. Now I am an adult and I am going to clubs/bars/partys/gigs way into the early hours I really struggle with coming home without spending £20 on an uber to ensure I get home safe. Does anyone have any advice to give me? Would be much appreciated.

Stay safe ladies x