u/Alternative-Neck-738

I (21F) am studying abroad, and there’s a guy in my class (21M) from the same country as me.

At first, I really didn’t like him. He annoyed me and we just didn’t get along. But somehow, over time, that completely changed and now I like him… which I did NOT expect at all.

The thing is, we’re total opposites. He’s very outgoing and has fully adapted to the culture here, while I’m more reserved and keep to myself. Because of that, I keep feeling like I’m probably not his type.

At some point I found his TikTok and followed him, and he actually noticed and asked me about it. I said yes, then asked for his Instagram, but he said he doesn’t really use it, and the conversation just kind of ended there.

Since then, everything’s been normal. We talk sometimes in class, but it’s just casual.

Now I don’t know what to do. I like him, but I don’t want to make it obvious, and I’m kind of scared of getting rejected. So I’ve just been doing nothing… and overthinking everything.

I don’t know if I should just leave it alone or try to do something.TL;DR;

I (21F) am studying abroad, and there’s a guy in my class (21M) from the same country as me.

At first, I really didn’t like him. He annoyed me and we just didn’t get along. But somehow, over time, that completely changed and now I like him… which I did NOT expect at all.

The thing is, we’re total opposites. He’s very outgoing and has fully adapted to the culture here, while I’m more reserved and keep to myself. Because of that, I keep feeling like I’m probably not his type.

At some point I found his TikTok and followed him, and he actually noticed and asked me about it. I said yes, then asked for his Instagram, but he said he doesn’t really use it, and the conversation just kind of ended there.

Since then, everything’s been normal. We talk sometimes in class, but it’s just casual.

Now I don’t know what to do. I like him, but I don’t want to make it obvious, and I’m kind of scared of getting rejected. So I’ve just been doing nothing… and overthinking everything.

I don’t know if I should just leave it alone or try to do something.

I (21F) am studying abroad and there’s a guy in my class (21M) from the same country as me.

At first, I didn’t like him at all, he honestly annoyed me. But somehow over time, I started liking him.

We’re complete opposites. He’s outgoing and really into the culture here, while I’m more reserved. So I keep feeling like I’m not his type.

I followed him on TikTok, he noticed and asked me about it. I said yes, asked for his Instagram, and he said he doesn’t really use it. The conversation ended there.

Now we just talk normally in class.

I like him, but I don’t want to make it obvious and I’m scared of rejection… so I’m just doing nothing and overthinking.

What should I do?