Hey all! Just wondering if anything is wrong with my girl? The big leaf at the top is her last leaf she had produced, and that was months ago. I know she’s a bit crispy but I don’t understand why she hasn’t produced more leafs? Unless it’s just a slow process. And is she getting enough light? Thanks!
So this Reddit page won’t let me attach photos 😭. So I’m going to have to type out the conversation that happened. We are talking about pee and kidney stones just as a warning.
Bf: I need a pee my left ball is hurting
Me: ok
Bf: means I need to pee
Me: reallyyyyy, who would’ve thought, not I
Bf:
don’t do that
If you would let me talk
It’s nothing to do with wanting to pee
Before kidney stone I don’t feel it
After it now hurts when I want to pee
So fucking lose the attitude
No need for it
Me: (replying to him saying “means I need to pee”)
There was no reason to say this, because you said “I need to pee bc my ball is hurting”
I know what that means
Bf: I said it to let you know what is hurting me. See fucking blowing up at me for no reason
Me: (replying to him saying “I need a pee my left ball is hurting”) That’s what this comment is saying. I haven’t even blown up at you
Bf: You are
Me: you’re the one who’s getting upset
Bf: I’m not upset
But you talk to me like shit
No need to say “really who would’ve thought” when I was just letting you know I’m in pain when I need to pee. And you do this
Me: You said “I need to pee my ball is hurting” and then replied with “that means I need to pee” like I’m a 5 year old
Bf: my fault again
Me: I understand that the first sentence is you telling me that you need to pee. I didn’t say it was your fault at all
He goes on to say that I caused this all because he was telling me that he was in pain because he had to pee and that this was the last time he was going to tell me anything again.
For clarification, when I had said “reallyyyy, who would’ve thought, not I” I was being sarcastic and joking and he knows that that’s how we mess around with each other.
In all honesty, this doesn’t even seem bad and I feel kind of stupid for even posting this. We are constantly fighting about the stupidest things and quite honestly I just want to get out.
I understand that maybe I shouldn’t have made a sarcastic comment (even tho we do it everyday and he’s worse about those comments than I am because I have to watch what I say with him), but I don’t even feel like I was worked up over it like he was.
So can someone please help me understand if he was overreacting or if I was? And sorry for the long post