My girlfriend is a Latina and immigrated here to the US from another country. I educated myself and have a successful career, and am working on climbing out of the poverty I was born in. She is an extremely hard worker, but there is a significant income difference between us.
I've never minded being the primary one to take us out to dinners and experiences, but for the past 2 months or so, she's been straight up asking me to buy her expensive things. A MacBook and a car, and for help repairing her current car. She's not asking in a joking way, she genuinely got mad at me when I didn't help her with her car repair. And I cannot over exaggerate when I say she asks me to buy her a car or laptop every single time I interact with her. Quick phone call to see how her day was going? "It'd be better if I had a laptop." There are some days where she pokes me for literal hours begging for a laptop, and I'm unable of having a normal conversation with her.
I don't know what to do at this point. I wouldn't mind supporting her more if we lived together and were married, but we're not there right now, and our relationship has been a little rocky lately anyways for other issues. I don't think she's overtly a gold digger since we were together for over 2 years before she started this behavior, but it's starting to wear me out. I'm also tired in the relationship from other issues, so I'm not interested in having yet another serious sit down conversation about how a behavior of hers bothers me.