Whenever I’m in gym or like I’m on the road, I often lock my eyes with a lot of women. Not each and every one of them but enough to make me ask here on Reddit. I don’t consider myself attractive but I know I’m not worst looking either, I’m wheatish, 5’10 and buffed built. I’m scared to approach or talk a lot of time, what does it mean since a lot of times it happens, am I not bad to look at or it’s just coincidence?
I’m talking to a girl who was my classmate over 5 years ago. We reconnected when we met at a wedding around November 2025 and then started talking like for over 2-4 hours daily till February. I obviously liked her, but she suddenly mentioned that she liked a guy back 1.5 years ago and met him in an event and still have feelings for him. Then I started acting distant from her and then over March mid we stopped talking, then I used to text her after like 2-3 days then she used to do it. We talked nicely(no dry texts) upon 1-2 days of reply then again back to late replies and dry texts. In April, we stopped talking again and she texted me after 2 weeks, I replied now again she’s back to very late replies and doesn’t reply to me if I even give remotely dry text, I just don’t know what I should do?