What do you wish doctors understood better?
Hey everyone, current medical student here planning on going into family medicine.
I wanted to ask this community something honestly and openly because I genuinely want to become the best doctor I can be for future patients.
I know a lot of people with this condition/experience have felt dismissed, unheard, minimized, or even straight up ignored by healthcare providers. I also know modern healthcare can sometimes make patients feel like they’re just another number in the system.
So I wanted to ask:
What are things doctors have done that made you distrust them, feel unheard, or feel dismissed?
And on the flip side, what are things a doctor did that made you actually feel listened to, respected, and cared for?
I’m asking because I want to learn early. I don’t want to become emotionally detached, rush people, or accidentally make patients feel invisible. I’ve had my own experiences as a patient where I walked away thinking, “that could have been handled way better,” so I know how frustrating healthcare can feel from the other side too.
No defensiveness here. I’m all ears and genuinely want to understand your experiences better so I can take better care of people in the future.