u/Aggressive_Tangelo_8

I've only ever tried Astroglide, so I'm curious what you guys think. Is there stuff that's better for dildos vs. the real thing?

Hello!

So sometime soon in June (yes haha ironic pride month, but its actually cause it's my birthday), I'm going to head up to my boyfriend's place in Canada to hang out with him for two weeks, and during this time, we are planning to go on a romantic date to Niagra falls overnight and have our first time at a nice hotel (he lives with his parents so sex at home is a no). And although I have had anal sex before, I've never done it... Let's say 'properly'

I did it as a kid who was curious, but I never really did it properly. So I'm wondering what the best way is to properly prepare my boyfriend for Anal? It's also his first time doing anal, so nothing too experimental and off the wall would be appreciated.

He in his own words has said "I'll do whatever you tell me cause I'm not all that interested/knowledgeable about anal, I just want you to be happy.", so I want to make sure everything is as clean as possible and enjoyable so that he hopefully comes around to be as sexually interested as me (probably not gonna happen lol)

So far all I really have planned is just lube, condoms, maybe an enema, maybe a soft laxative, and of course plenty of fingering and foreplay.

All help would be appreciated. Ps. I am busy for the next 4 or so hours, so I most likely won't respond to any comments until then. Thank you!

Edit: for clarification, I'm topping my boyfriend, not the other way around. And he has almost no experience with anal, most he's done is one finger while showering.