Having trouble being comfortable in the dating world, I'm a super friendly, outgoing 22(F). I've only been in 1 genuinely serious relationship that lasted 7 years. Its been 2 years since the breakup and I've only gone on one date since which I ended the communication because I felt bad I wasnt communicating with him much afterwards. I spend most of my time working and going to college classes. What should I do?
I need opinions, my ex and I have recently started being fwb after a 2 year break up and we were together ab0ut 8 years prior, 2 years in he cheated on me, not physically but emotionally, him and the girl sent photos back and forth and said what they'd do if they ever met up. Well I stayed and they didnt talk again...well until we broke up...after we broke up she came from out of town and they hooked up, and to top it off she had a boyfriend and a baby when she came to visit. She came out 3 times in the last 2 years and the last time was 4 months prior to us meeting up again. Since we've been hanging out again she has contacted him twice just asking how he was and his responses were short and the convos ended because he stopped responding. Hes also told me that she was weird and grossed him out at times and he had a hard time staying aroused when they would hook up and now that we have started to go back to our old relationship ways I'm afraid that if she says shes coming back into town he might meet up with her again because technically we aren't together. We have set known boundaries and told eachother that if we decide to talk to other people or see other people we would let the other person know but as we get more involved I worry more about that possibility. What should I do? What are your thoughts?