So muchh has happened in the last 3.5 years with this guy ( 37)but for some reason I keep on going back , my mental health is really bad , what too do . How to convince myself that this is not a good relationship and I need to leave if I want my life back . I am 27
Hi , before we start, the reason I might just come across as too straightforward and calculative is coz initially I wanted to find love in AM but after meeting terrible guys , and even worse families and after being completely honest , facts were withheld from me .
Something which started as a fun and sacred thing for me helped me see the reality of humanity . People have hid genetic diseases , expectations to live in village away from husband ,boundless patriarchy, been rude to my parents , asking to leave job, expectation to take care of extended families ,etc .
So please don't write hate comments , just move on if it is too much .
I believe in showing all my cards , because lying doesn't take you far on a personal level.
Actual post -
So I am someone who grew up in a very loving family and I have a lot of love to give , but from now on only to my husband and till someone doesn't become that I just can't.
I am educated ( undergrad + masters ), good job ,fair and good looking , and from a good and educated family ( all females are educated till masters and mostly working) . I will share the details on dm. I grew up in Delhi ncr , love sports and gym . I like to take care of myself and my skin
I believe in God and do pooja at times , eat non veg , want to continue my career, have kids , and live an active and fun life . Traveling and being ambitious are two things very important to me . I do not mind staying with in laws when they come over and will take good care of them . Would love to form good relations with the siblings as well .
Please dm if you meet majority of these -
Educated from a good institute
Height over 5'8
Age - 26 - 35
Preferably North Indian ( liberal South and other side would do too , but I can't promise if I would be able to settle in a completely new culture)
Earning good according to your age and believe in savings and investments.
Want to have a good marriage , with seriousness , devotions and taking up responsibilities
Open minded family
NRI ( living abroad )/ Metro city in India
Open to a working wife who wears everything ( will respect family functions and pooja and will always dress according to the occasion )
Want to get into the process with full honesty
If you're fun loving , open to travel , have seen the world , have hobbies
Preferably extroverted
Job at a nice company > stable start up > business
Comment down below or dm with your details please to move forward .
I am a loving and fun person but I just do not have the energy to give it to everyone else , trust me when we talk I'll have a lot more energy