u/Affectionate_Lab2845

19M Never had a GF and Looking for an Advice

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Hi guys, i'm 19M and never had a GF before. I'm very attractive based on what people around me say, and when i tell them i never dated especially my family, they call me a liar.

I'm making good money for my age, travelled, own a car, started my mini business, i'm in top physic, 7-0 amateur boxer (i Quit), and i'm overly mature for my age. But despite everything, i struggle to find a Girlfriend, why is that? Looking back, i had many girls attracted to me in high school and outside but only now i started to realise and pickup the signs.

I see all the people around me who are very immature and got nothing going on with their life, who will also make me lose braincells when talking to them and their way of thinking, but yet they all still have GFS, literally everyone has a GF nowadays expect me

I have no idea why i never acted, i guess i was just overly focused on myself and making money to the point where i found them all boring, same goes for friends. Now it's becoming too much and i really wanna find love, but i'm doing something wrong that's preventing me from getting it. Could it be my accent? i do have a middle eastern (syrian) accent, but can of course hold a conversation. This has always been my biggest insecurity.

Not sure if it's weird that i prefer woman's 20-25years of age, i always found them more mature/beautiful instead of girls my age which 90% are Fking boring and they just wanna party/Drama/and talk shit about people. But also from a 25F perspective, they will not look for someone who's 19years old.

I'm a very private person, and no one i mean no one in this whole earth not even my mom knows me for who i'm truly am. Everyone see's the confident, the Charisma. But deep inside i'm a very complex person with overly complexed thoughts and view of everything and wanting to always be the best and be the best at what i do, i wanna share all my knowledge and everything i learn with someone.

I need real love, someone who believes in me and my mission and not just get bored and move on. I also never had sex before which im insecure about and will probably affect my relationship. I see my sister and her husband. They really are an inspiration to me, how they love each other to the moon and always support each and don't fall into all these Modern Dating propaganda/advices.

I always try and hype myself, by trying to be overly egoistic, and wanting to chase money and thinking i'm above everyone when the idea of relationship comes into my mind, but i'm starting to be very aware of that. I just wanna find someone delete social media and forget all the drama happening in the world. Any Advice?

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u/Affectionate_Lab2845 — 10 hours ago

Why can i not find a relationship as a 19(M)

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Hi guys, i'm 19M and never had a GF before. I'm very attractive based on what people around me say, and when i tell them i never dated especially my family, they call me a liar.

I'm making good money for my age, travelled, own a car, started my mini business, i'm in top physic, 7-0 amateur boxer (i Quit), and i'm overly mature for my age. But despite everything, i struggle to find a Girlfriend, why is that? Looking back, i had many girls attracted to me in high school and outside but only now i started to realise and pickup the signs.

I have no idea why i never acted, i guess i was just overly focused on myself and making money to the point where i found them all boring, same goes for friends. Now it's becoming too much and i really wanna find love, but i'm doing something wrong that's preventing me from getting it. Could it be my accent? i do have a middle eastern (syrian) accent, but can of course hold a conversation. This has always been my biggest insecurity.

Not sure if it's weird that i prefer woman's 20-25years of age, i always found them more mature/beautiful instead of girls my age which 90% are Fking boring and they just wanna party/Drama/and talk shit about people. But also from a 25F perspective, they will not look for someone who's 19years old.

I'm a very private person, and no one i mean no one in this whole earth not even my mom knows me for who i'm truly am. Everyone see's the confident, the Charisma. But deep inside i'm a very complex person with overly complexed thoughts and view of everything and wanting to always be the best and be the best at what i do, i wanna share all my knowledge and everything i learn with someone.

I need real love, someone who believes in me and my mission and not just get bored and move on. I also never had sex before which im insecure about and will probably affect my relationship. I see my sister and her husband. They really are an inspiration to me, how they love each other to the moon and always support each and don't fall into all these Modern Dating propaganda/advices.

I always try and hype myself, by trying to be overly egoistic, and wanting to chase money and thinking i'm above everyone when the idea of relationship comes into my mind, but i'm starting to be very aware of that. I just wanna find someone delete social media and forget all the drama happening in the world. Any Advice?

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u/Affectionate_Lab2845 — 10 hours ago

19(M) struggling with finding a relationship

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Hi guys, i'm 19M and never had a GF before. I'm very attractive based on what people around me say, and when i tell them i never dated especially my family, they call me a liar.

I'm making good money for my age, travelled, own a car, started my mini business, i'm in top physic, 7-0 amateur boxer (i Quit), and i'm overly mature for my age. But despite everything, i struggle to find a Girlfriend, why is that? Looking back, i had many girls attracted to me in high school and outside but only now i started to realise and pickup the signs.

I have no idea why i never acted, i guess i was just overly focused on myself and making money to the point where i found them all boring, same goes for friends. Now it's becoming too much and i really wanna find love, but i'm doing something wrong that's preventing me from getting it. Could it be my accent? i do have a middle eastern (syrian) accent, but can of course hold a conversation. This has always been my biggest insecurity.

Not sure if it's weird that i prefer woman's 20-25years of age, i always found them more mature/beautiful instead of girls my age which 90% are Fking boring and they just wanna party/Drama/and talk shit about people. But also from a 25F perspective, they will not look for someone who's 19years old.

I'm a very private person, and no one i mean no one in this whole earth not even my mom knows me for who i'm truly am. Everyone see's the confident, the Charisma. But deep inside i'm a very complex person with overly complexed thoughts and view of everything and wanting to always be the best and be the best at what i do, i wanna share all my knowledge and everything i learn with someone.

I need real love, someone who believes in me and my mission and not just get bored and move on. I also never had sex before which im insecure about and will probably affect my relationship. I see my sister and her husband. They really are an inspiration to me, how they love each other to the moon and always support each and don't fall into all these Modern Dating propaganda/advices.

I always try and hype myself, by trying to be overly egoistic, and wanting to chase money and thinking i'm above everyone when the idea of relationship comes into my mind, but i'm starting to be very aware of that. I just wanna find someone delete social media and forget all the drama happening in the world. Any Advice?

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u/Affectionate_Lab2845 — 10 hours ago