u/AdventurousRule5505

I got a text the day after we slept together for the first time, basically saying she didn't feel any chemistry. She was the first person I've ever been with. I honestly feel pretty vulnerable and insecure after this. I am smaller down below (4.5 inches) and she commented on that, so maybe its not something I can change. I wish I could talk to someone in real life, but because I'm a guy I don't think my friends would take it seriously. At best I'd get "still smashed" and at worst they'd probably make fun of my dick size. Typing this I'm realizing maybe I need better friends.

I just kinda wanted to ask people what they thought made partners good in bed? I'd really like to ask you refrain from the dick size stuff. I really liked her. I would've used a sleeve or vibrator or whatever to compensate, but idk what to do about what I was born with. I did try to ask her what she liked and I got really vague answers about guys taking control. Which to be fair isn't me. I kinda wanna be held too man idk. I'd appreciate an ear if anyone cares

I'm 30 and my fiance passed anyway when she was 23. The amount of frustration I feel from people telling me I was young and should move on is frustrating. 7 years later and I still love her more than anything in the world. I lost my best friend that day and no one has ever even begin to fill that void. I've been in therapy for years and it has done nothing to change the pain I feel. I don't even think I'd be capable of dating someone who hasn't lost someone. I'm secretly looking forward to being 50 because maybe by then I can get someone to look at me like a human and not a wounded animal.