AITA for choosing not to have a relationship with my brother?
My brother 23 and I 21 trans male never got along. There were times we got well but it always ended in a fight, When I was 13 him 15 our dad passed away, this made things worse and when I was 17 I left the house leaving him with my mom. Now things have gotten steady and I visit every week. Every time I’m with him I feel not mad but uncomfortable. I had a conversation with my mom telling her that I felt if I tried having a brotherly relationship with him it would not go well, my mom at one point said he is someone who cannot or will not understand others emotions, this bothered me more because isn’t that a bad thing? I don’t know, I have many close friends who I consider brothers and who have done things he never did. It makes me feel bad because he is my brother but I don’t want him to be. Is it bad I feel this way?