u/Adorable-Werewolf799

In a lot of other Asian countries, this is kind of an unspoken taboo - like people don’t always say it outright, but it’s definitely not something you openly do, especially if you’re not married.

Even bringing a partner home can feel like a big deal, let alone staying overnight. And if someone brings different partners over time… that would probably get judged quite a bit.

Like

• Are the parents actually okay with you brining over your partner multiple times in a week?
• Does it depend on age (student vs working adult)?
• If someone has had multiple partners, is bringing them home seen negatively?
• Do relatives still gossip about it or is it genuinely “no one cares”?
• How long do you actually get to know each other to introduce someone to your family?

Would be interesting to hear what it’s really like vs what people assume.

In a lot of other Asian countries, this is kind of an unspoken taboo - like people don’t always say it outright, but it’s definitely not something you openly do, especially if you’re not married.

Even bringing a partner home can feel like a big deal, let alone staying overnight. And if someone brings different partners over time… that would probably get judged quite a bit.

• Are the parents actually okay with you bringing over your partner multiple times in a week?
• Does it depend on age (student vs working adult)?
• If someone has had multiple partners, is bringing them home seen negatively?
• Do relatives still gossip about it or is it genuinely “no one cares”?
• How long do you actually get to know each other to introduce someone to your family?

Would be interesting to hear what it’s really like vs what people assume.