We cosleep with our 18 month old. I’ve been terrified of over heating so he’s dressed in a long sleeve onesie with no pants and then a 0.2 tog sleeping bag with no sleeves. I think it’s not warm enough for him. I’m based in Melbourne, Australia and it’s getting cold now. Nights can drop to 3c-4c. How are we dressing bubs up to keep them warm when cosleeping? We keep the heater on but it’s so stuffy and I would like to keep it cooler in our room. Thanks!
Another argument with my husband about how he feels I don’t want to spend time with him.
The trigger: I fell asleep longer than 20 mins which was the original plan.
We just came back from a holiday with our 18m old. Exhausted. I couldn’t even keep my eyes open so he said for me to take a nap and put a timer on whilst he unpacks everything. I said no it’s okay I’ll help to unpack too but he insists I nap. So I take it. I ended up napping for an hour with our child.
I came out of the room and instantly he starts having a go at me about how I never make time for him. Two days ago he said this is the 3 holiday we haven’t had sex on.
I just stopped breastfeeding about 2 months ago.
I feel like I’m just coming up for air now.
Our sex life is barely there. I wish it was but I am always so tired or just not in the mood. Since I stopped breastfeeding my libido is slowly coming back but I’m also quite sensitive since being pregnant.
I feel like my husband doesn’t even like me anymore.
He does a lot. He’s a great father, he cooks and does groceries. Cleans. Runs a business full time and takes care of the bills.
I work part time and do part time uni.
He says he feels like roommates. But I don’t feel that way. Whenever things feel ok, something from him always come up and I just feel so defeated again. I’ve been trying to make an effort more and be more conscious of touching him and being loving but it just seems like it’s never enough.
I don’t know what to do.
Any advice?