u/Additional-Eye-6225

I 21M been talking to this girl 21F around 2 months fully online but FaceTiming often and plans on seeing each other soon. She’s really great and has a lot of green flags. Problem is we’ve declared exclusively a while ago and I just found out this morning she’s been lying to me and actively talking to old flings and stuff like that. Nothing crazy and honestly didn’t seem like she was exactly being 100% unfaithful, but she’d be sending them pictures and making conversation and being flirty, accepting compliments with a few deleted chats that she may or may not be lying about what they are. I pretty much just told her I don’t trust her anymore because she was lying to me about it when we decided to get those kinds of people out of our lives and she didn’t. I don’t really know if I should stay or leave. She apologizes profusely which like of course she’s going to now, so I can’t say it means much. It shows me that I do mean a lot to her which is nice but it also shows me that she might be the type to need some side stuff going on, which I’m personally not at all into. She’s went through and unadded all the dudes on her own accord and promises she won’t ever do anything like it or lie to me like that again. I just told her I need time to think about it all. Any advice is appreciated.