u/Addiepie1455

We been on bad terms and argue for five days in a row now. He still think ending the relationship is the conclusion we need. I have him space yesterday he asked so. And he came back but said he see no future relationship between us. But i try to convince him that we should work it on the problem not throw away the whole relationship but he still responds negatively. I begged him to stay. I was too panicked and anxious and i keep texting begging and sometimes call. And he said it is annoying but my nervous system could not stop and i ask him to block le and move in if he is 10000 percent sure he said he us 100000000000 percent sure he want to end it but then he always avoid the question or ignore when i ask him to block me for real coz if i block him i always unblock again coz i am not the one who want to end the rs from the start. Idk just wanna know why guys do this.

I(24 F) Met this guy (27M) from a hookup app and somehow it turned into us basically spending weekends together. He picks me up and we stay at his place, he introduced me to his family during Easter, calls me his gf sometimes, even took me to get a promise ring after I joked about it. So on paper it sounds like he likes me.
But the problem is… the effort feels inconsistent.
He rarely plans actual dates. Mostly it’s just me coming over, church because I asked, evening walks, or random “let’s do this this weekend” ideas that never actually happen.
He also changes plans a lot But also communication is a mess.
Another thing is that I feel like I’m the one trying to create emotional connection. I suggest watching things together, finding stuff to do long distance, trying to make weekends feel intentional. He usually says yes but then falls asleep after 15min in of our movie, says he’s tired, or just doesn’t really engage much. I understand he had stuff going with hus work, car and family stuffs but it is almost always giving me i am tired energy. And weekends are basically the only real time we have coz of his work i don’t want to make him hangout with me when he constantly says or make sure i know that he is tired.
So now I’m stuck wondering:
Is he actually into me but just bad at relationships/communication? But then again he had 5 ex gf not that i am judging him based on that.
am I basically convenient and doing too much for someone who likes the comfort but not the responsibility?
I don’t know if I’m asking for too much or if I’m ignoring obvious signs. The thing is i really like him and want to make him my husband he us the kind, sweet and gentle with me in person a lot.