u/AdUnique5951

Manifesting your ex back.

March this year my boyfriend left me because he was unhappy, he provided me with love where id provided him with excuses. Tbh i didn't know I was doing this, this man genuinely thought I could change so he left me for his own peace of mind.

I figured out that I didn't love myself all my love was focused on him but in the wrong way, I know this now I get it but knowing this man still tried to keep me evening though I made him unhappy in the end means he really didn't want to leave me, we have been in contact a lot since the break up but mostly just talking about random stuff.. even though I made him unhappy he is still trying to keep me in his life. Im sure hes talking to other women which im kinda ok with cause men deal with things differently and he was unhappy for a while

I started manifesting how to love myself and become more me which im finally starting to believe, im telling myself im good enough, im worthy of love, Im worthy of his love. I started acting like he was my person again in my head, ill talk to him out loud even though he wasn't actually there.

I've recently noticed a change in his behaviour towards me, he talks about us and even talks about us doing future things and kids.

Has anyone ever manifested before and what happened

Thank you x

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u/AdUnique5951 — 9 days ago

My Ex ( 45 m ) left me ( 30 F ) in March. We were together for 1 1/2 years. We were happy and laughed so much together but there were things about me he didn't like, I controlled situations, id make excuses for things.. which looking back he was 100% correct.

We atill talk every day, deep down i know hes talking to another women but he does have a lot of female friends ( hes a big gamer - x box ) I know this is just a distraction I know men process things differently

I reject i couldn't change cause he kept telling me I wasnt adapting to him but he was to me.

But women know when they've met the one.. I was with someone for nearly 10 years and this short relationship meant more to me than that one.

I need to change NOT for him but for me, I need to be a better person, but the truth is ill still only want him.

Has anyone got any advice or coaching advice on how to stop controlling etc.

Has anyone been broken up with cause of similar situation and gotten back together.. im not holding onto hope cause theres no point of wanting to change for someone else we gotta change for us but I do like to think theres a way back in the distance future x

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u/AdUnique5951 — 12 days ago