Hi i need some advice on this…
I’ve been talking to this guy for about 4 months now , and I’ve reached a point where I really don’t know what to do anymore. We are at a point where, i need to make a decision whether i want to commit to this relationship or not. (as i don’t want to keep him waiting too)
**Here are some Green flags that i notice during our time tgt :**
He’s very thoughtful — notices what I like/dislike and checks in on me
If I go quiet, he’ll ask about my day and notice when I’m being off
We have similar interests (we both like sports, worked out together, etc.)
We share similar life goals (both don’t want kids)
He’s supportive — for example, he even tracked my race online and congratulated me after
**But there are also things that bother me:**
**Red flags (or maybe just incompatibilities?):**
He doesn’t really update me about his day, which makes texting feel dry and one-sided
Because of that, I also stop sharing, and it becomes this cycle of cold replies and dead conversations
I start dreading replying because I don’t even know what to say anymore
He also follows a lot of thirst trap-type accounts (which honestly bothers me more than I expected)
Lastly, i also found out he probably lied to me about when he broke up. He told me at beginning that they broke up months ago however i found that it wasn’t true and right after he broke up we started talking..
TLDR
I guess my question is:
**Is this something worth working through, or is this my gut telling me we’re not right for each other?**
Would really appreciate any perspective 🙏