i (25F) am so enthusiastic for sex and im excited when my boyfriend (28M) and i start. but my body overheats, my stomach gurgles, i feel it in my throat, and then i have to go to the bathroom to get sick. i hate this. we’re grinding before i have to go. i just wanna to do this for him (and for me) because hes my favorite person.
ive tried looking up on the internet first, but the issue is that im underweight due to chronic pain and the only search results im getting are hacks to weight loss.
my bf is a furnace (respectfully a very warm man) and he cant help it. hes doing everything right and listening to me. he stops when i get sick and doesnt get irritated with me. hes helped me find comfortable ways like turning on the fan and pointing at us. but i still get sick!
if anyone had tips or anything, its welcome here. not looking for medical advice, only if you have similar experiences then im happy to hear whats helped you. but also soon im going to the doctor.