After all the conversations and support, something interesting started happening. A few of us began setting small daily goals nothing huge, just simple, doable tasks. And more importantly, we started holding each other accountable.
Now, every day we check in, talk about what we committed to the previous day, and whether we actually followed through. Sometimes it’s basic stuff like chores, work tasks, or just getting through the day productively but that consistency is making a real difference.
Throughout the day, we stay connected:
- Morning (~9 AM for 15 to 20 mins): Quick check-in — how the morning went
- Afternoon (~4 PM for 15 to 20 min): Mid-day check — progress, struggles
- Evening/Night ((~ 9:30 for 30 to 40 min) We close the day by reviewing if we actually did what we committed
Accountability is the core of this:
- We share simple proof (like a picture) when we complete tasks
- If something doesn’t go as planned, we don’t ignore it we dig into why.
It’s not perfect, and we’re all still figuring things out, but having that sense of accountability and support has been surprisingly powerful.
Just wanted to say thanks and if anyone else feels stuck or overwhelmed, even small daily commitments with the right people can help more than you’d expect. I would also like thanks people who reached me out and trusting the process.