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Problem/Goal: Hi, my younger sister recently resigned from her job. She worked there for 3 months. Her reason for resigning was that she couldn’t handle the system anymore and it was affecting her mental health too much.

Context: She recently received her final pay, but when she showed me her payslip, I noticed that there was no prorated 13th month pay included. Also, when we checked her government contributions (SSS, Philhealth, Pagibig), there were no posted contributions at all since she started working at that company.

I told her to message HR and accounting, I attached the reply from accounting to her email regarding the government contributions.

Idk where else to ask about this.
*Is she entitled to receive prorated 13th month pay even if she was under probationary status and only stayed for 3 months?
*How can we resolve the issue of contributions being deducted on her payslip but not actually remitted?

Yung company ay bago palang according to her kwento. I’ve never encountered this kind of situation.

Thank youu

Hi, my younger sister recently resigned from her job. She worked there for 3 months. Her reason for resigning was that she couldn’t handle the system anymore and it was affecting her mental health too much.

She recently received her final pay, but when she showed me her payslip, I noticed that there was no prorated 13th month pay included. Also, when we checked her government contributions (SSS, Philhealth, Pagibig), there were no posted contributions at all since she started working at that company.

I told her to message HR and accounting, I attached the reply from accounting to her email regarding the government contributions.

Idk where else to ask about this.
*Is she entitled to receive prorated 13th month pay even if she was under probationary status and only stayed for 3 months?
*How can we resolve the issue of contributions being deducted on her payslip but not actually remitted?

Yung company ay bago palang according to her kwento. I’ve never encountered this kind of situation.

Thank youu

Problem/Goal: Idk if I’m overthinking. Gets ko naman na matagal na silang magkakaibigan even before I came into the picture. Pero I can’t help feeling hurt and left out. Am I overreacting? Or valid ba na ma-hurt ako? Huhuhu :(

Context: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He’s part of this “community” (let’s just say sports). Yung ex niya is also part of that same community, so basically everyone there knows na naging sila before.

May bf has a super close guy friend from that community and kinasal last year sa girlfriend niya na part din ng same community. Close din yung girl sa bf ko. My bf was one of the groomsmen.
Hindi ako formally invited, pero verbally sinabi ng bf ko na invited daw ako and sabi niya yung groom mismo nag-invite sakin. So I was planning to file leave sa work, sabi ko mga 2-3 weeks before the wedding na lang ako mag file.
I even started checking dresses online kasi na-excite talaga ako since first time ko sana mame-meet yung ibang friends niya from that community.

Before the wedding announcement, first time ko ma-meet pala yung closest friends niya from that community, yung bride and groom. Honestly, na-off ako. Biglaan kasi, akala ko susunduin niya lang ako from work, pero last minute sinabi niya sasama daw friends niya kumain. Pagod ako from work and wala na rin akong social energy.
The whole night sobrang awkward. They were talking about things I didn’t understand, tapos yung girl parang di man lang ako kinausap or pinansin. Even my bf parang ibang personality nakita ko, parang saglit lang niya ako papansinin, then balik na ulit siya sa kanila. I even tried initiating a topic para makasabay, pero saglit lang then mapupunta ulit sa mga topics nila. I felt so left out and uncomfortable. Gusto ko na umuwi that time.

After that night, I felt something off. I didn’t tell my bf directly, naging cold lang ako for a few days. I even asked my friends kung normal ba na ganun pag kasama mo friends ng jowa mo. I thought maybe normal lang ma-feel yun.

Fast forward weeks before the wedding, biglang hindi na ako invited. Sabi ng bf ko may limit daw sa guest list and may family members daw na hindi nasama, so they had to remove some plus ones including me.
I said okay lang, pero deep inside it really hurt. Sana di nalang ako ininvite una palang. Di ko alam kung totoo ba yung reason or baka ayaw lang talaga ako nung girl (bride). Hinayaan ko na lang.

But today, may lumabas na suggested friend sa IG. Friend din ng bf ko from that community, so yes I stalked. Then I ended up seeing posts nakita ko na invited pala yung ex ng bf ko sa wedding and she was there with her new boyfriend.
Now I honestly don’t know what to feel. Bakit hindi sinabi ng bf ko na andun pala ex niya? And parang close pa rin sila ng bride and groom and his ex, kasi invited pati yung new bf ng ex. During ligawan stage, iba yung kwento niya sakin (my bf) about sa closeness nila (friends from community+his ex) after their breakup, so medyo confusing.