u/AdAppropriate9103

My wife has been abusive for many years (emotionally, physically, financially). Look back now I can see she was pretty big into shrinking my world so that there was only her (cutting off all of my family and gaslighting me into thinking they were the problem and not her). My panic attacks got worse, and I developed agoraphobia and was not able to drive anywhere without her in the car.

Now that we are no-contact, I can drive anywhere with no problem and no longer have agoraphobia, and haven’t even had any panic attacks, which I would get severe ones often.

I think this was from me being in a constant state of anxiety / flight or flight with her around.

I’m not sure if this is an actually possibility, but to me it seems like it was caused by her, and more part of shrinking my world. Me not being able to leave without her, and I believe that this was done on purpose.

Has anyone else experienced anything like this?

*Originally posted in r/legal advice and was removed by mods (I don’t know why).*

I recently found out that when I paid over $2000 for my wife to get a tattoo that in the last session they did - he cut the tattoo short to bring her back to his place and have sex.

While I have gone no contact with her and I am working on all of this, my question is this:

Can I legally leave a one star Google review for his shop with something like “spent thousands on tattoo for my wife, he too her back to his place and banged her. 0/10 would not recommend”?

I get that it is petty but at this point I don’t care, I just want to know legally if it is ok.

Thank you in advance.

* UPDATE *: you all have some great points with the general consensus being that it is a bad idea (won’t matter, will only give more business, etc.)

I wasn’t meaning to hurt the business, more leave a petty message that I know, which really means nothing.