u/Actual-Proof671

Primijetila sam više puta da me dečki s kojima sam bila na faksu i sad dok radim gledaju neprestano. Preočito je kad vam se neka cura sviđa i ona to primijeti.

E sad svim tim dečkima sam davala signale, gledala nazad, nasmijala se...ali ništa. Jedan je našao curu u međuvremenu, s drugim sam izgubila kontakt. A za trećeg sam saznala da se dopisuje s drugim curama, da je išao na dejt s jednom od njih, ali i dalje je nastavio intenzivno gledati i pratit svaki moj korak. Više mi ništa nije jasno. Moje frendice dijele isti problem, ali su se one odlučile napravit prvi korak, kod jedne je uspjelo, kod druge ne

Zašto jednostavno ne priđete? Ne mora to biti flert već čisto upoznavanje, jer ono simpatija je manjak informacija pa zašto se ne upoznat malo bolje?

EDIT: Oke, prilazim/ javljam se prva kod slijedeće ovakve situacije, treba promijenit igru. Znam da vam nije lako dečki, ne dajte se!

So there’s a guy who looked at me for a while while we were working together. It was so obvious that he liked me. He watched me every freaking second, and it was weird and kinda cute at the same time. I liked him too — he was shy and nerdy — but I always wanted him to make the first move. Also, other girls kinda flirted with him. I used to glance at him and give him signs, but he would just get red and walk away.

I changed job positions and hadn’t seen him for a year. In the meantime, I heard that he asked two girls who flirted with him for their phone numbers, and he even asked one of them out, but she refused and told him that I liked him. (I said it to a mutual friend and didn’t think she would spread it around.)

I saw him again at a conference. He was standing alone, smiling and looking at me. I smiled back, got so nervous, and continued talking to my friends. Then he approached those girls he had been texting and started talking with them. He even went for coffee with one of them — the same one he had previously asked out.

The next day, he was looking at me the whole time. I was kinda disappointed and felt like someone was joking around with me. He’s in his thirties while I’m still in my twenties, and I thought he would be more mature and approach me. It’s so weird to me because I still like him, but it feels like he’s just playing around.

What do you think? Should I just ignore him from now on and stop ruminating? Or should I try to send him more signs? But honestly, what signs does he even need?

Because now it seems like I’m the one with the crush, while he started it all. And you can’t tell me he’s shy, because he obviously had the guts to ask that girl out.