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Hi! So I’ve had atopic dermatitis/eczema my whole life it got the worse it’s ever been (and my skin has been bad in the past) last year so it’s been a year of absolute agony and oozing pain and just everything you can imagine eczema is. I do have a feeling I’m going through TSW as I stopped steroid after many years. But that a side I went to the dermatologist today and they gave me two options ciclosporin & methotrexate. My country (NZ) doesn’t do dupixent. I’m leaning towards ciclosporin just because it’s fast acting & I’m in so much pain, and I just at least want to be able to get out of bed comfortably and not in pain.

Has anyone got experiences in these tablets? Someone please reassure me. I don’t want to fall deeper in the mental side of this condition anymore. The physical side is enough for me.

UPDATE: i talked to him about it and he said what he meant “by slut” is the way I dress in the photo, not how I am now…. Thoughts?

So.. my (24F) boyfriend (23M) is big on dressing modestly and every time he sees girls with skimpy revealing outfits, he would call them names and just say he feels sorry for them blah blah blah. So i gave him my phone to show him some photos of me before I dated him, and i will admit i have dressed before him pretty revealing and im not proud of it but after meeting him I’ve respected his concern on how I should dress and don’t dress revealing anymore. Anyway he went through my photos and he saw a picture where I was wearing my clubbing fit where my tits was out…. And he started absolutely slut shaming me. Calling me a slut multiple times, a thot, saying I know how you really are now, ‘only if i knew’ during the moment, I kept apologising. But now thinking about it… that don’t sit right with me 😹😹😹…
How do I tackle this?

TL;DR my boyfriend made comments that I’m starting to realise aren’t right