Hi guys, I launched my app a month ago and have a few paid users. But everytime the user subscribes, they cancel like a few days right after everytime which clearly hints to me that they're not feeling the value of the app, and it's not useful to them.
There is a 3 day free trial in the app if anyone could kindly try it and give me feedback I would appreciate it so much.
Here it is: https://www.multiconnect.app/
I’ve been the initiator in basically every close friendship I have. I’m the one who texts first, suggests plans, follows up after something big happens in their life. And for a long time I just told myself that’s who I am, I’m a planner, I like reaching out, it’s fine
But lately I’ve been sitting with this uncomfortable question of whether some of these friendships would just cease to exist if I stopped. Like genuinely, if I went quiet for a month, would certain people even notice. And I don’t know what to do with that
The hard part is that when we do hang out or talk, it feels real. They’re not cold, they’re not checked out, they seem happy to hear from me. It’s not like the friendship feels fake in the moment. It’s just that the labor of keeping it alive seems to fall entirely on me, and I’m starting to feel it
I’ve even started keeping better track of who I reach out to and when, using notes on my phone, Notion and more recently something called multiconnect app that logs when I last contacted someone, just because I wanted to actually see the pattern instead of guessing. And looking at the data is kind of gutting honestly. There are people I’ve initiated contact with 10+ times in a row without a single unprompted message from their side
I don’t think they’re bad people. I just don’t know how much of this is personality difference versus how much of it is me not being a priority. And I also don’t know at what point continuing to reach out stops being loyalty and starts being something I should probably examine
Has anyone actually figured out how to navigate this? Did you pull back and see what happened, or did you just accept the dynamic and find peace with it somehow
I've been the initiator in basically every close friendship I have. I'm the one who texts first, suggests plans, follows up after something big happens in their life. And for a long time I just told myself that's who I am, I'm a planner, I like reaching out, it's fine
But lately I've been sitting with this uncomfortable question of whether some of these friendships would just cease to exist if I stopped. Like genuinely, if I went quiet for a month, would certain people even notice. And I don't know what to do with that
The hard part is that when we do hang out or talk, it feels real. They're not cold, they're not checked out, they seem happy to hear from me. It's not like the friendship feels fake in the moment. It's just that the labor of keeping it alive seems to fall entirely on me, and I'm starting to feel it
I've even started keeping better track of who I reach out to and when, using notes on my phone and more recently something called multiconnect .app that logs when I last contacted someone, just because I wanted to actually see the pattern instead of guessing. And looking at the data is kind of gutting honestly. There are people I've initiated contact with 10+ times in a row without a single unprompted message from their side
I don't think they're bad people. I just don't know how much of this is personality difference versus how much of it is me not being a priority. And I also don't know at what point continuing to reach out stops being loyalty and starts being something I should probably examine
Has anyone actually figured out how to navigate this? Did you pull back and see what happened, or did you just accept the dynamic and find peace with it somehow
HIRING UGC creators for an iOS personal CRM / relationship tracking app (multiconnect.app)
Pay structure:
• $1 CPM (you get paid per 1,000 views, no cap)
• No retainer, no base, pure performance pay
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REQUIREMENTS:
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• Cross-post on TikTok, Instagram Reels, and YouTube Shorts
• Comfortable on camera & have charisma
This works best for creators in the productivity, self-improvement, ADHD, friendship, or “adulting” niches, but anyone who can hook a viewer in the first 2 seconds can apply.
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Slots are limited and I’m onboarding this week, so DM me ASAP with:
1. Your TikTok/IG handle
2. 1-2 of your best performing videos
3. Niches you usually post in
MUST be willing to post consistently. If you ghost after 1 video, this isn’t for you.
DONT JUST COMMENT, DM ME
HIRING UGC creators for an iOS personal CRM / relationship tracking app (multiconnect.app)
Pay structure:
• $1 CPM (you get paid per 1,000 views, no cap)
• No retainer, no base, pure performance pay
• The more your videos pop off, the more you make. Top creators clear way more than flat-rate gigs.
REQUIREMENTS:
• Able to post at least 1 time a day
• Cross-post on TikTok, Instagram Reels, and YouTube Shorts
• Comfortable on camera & have charisma
This works best for creators in the productivity, self-improvement, ADHD, friendship, or “adulting” niches, but anyone who can hook a viewer in the first 2 seconds can apply.
Why this beats flat-rate UGC gigs: no ceiling. If your video hits 500K views, you get paid for 500K views. Most UGC contracts cap you at a flat fee no matter how well the content performs. This doesn’t.
Slots are limited and I’m onboarding this week, so DM me ASAP with:
1. Your TikTok/IG handle
2. 1-2 of your best performing videos
3. Niches you usually post in
MUST be willing to post consistently. If you ghost after 1 video, this isn’t for you.
DONT JUST COMMENT, DM ME
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Dm me if ur down and we'll see how it goes 🖤
I’m not trying to be dramatic about this but lately I’ve been noticing a pattern that’s kinda hard to ignore. Pretty much every friendship I have right now only exists because I’m the one initiating. If I stopped texting first, I genuinely think I wouldn’t hear from most of these people for months. Maybe ever.
And the weird part is I don’t think they don’t like me. I think they do. We have great hangouts when we actually see each other. They seem genuinely happy when I reach out. But the reaching out is always me. The remembering is always me. The “hey it’s been a minute, want to grab coffee” is always me.
I’ve tried a few things to take some of the mental load off, like calendar reminders, a running list in my notes app of who I haven’t talked to in a while, notion dashboard and more recently something called multiconnect.app that’s been handling the reminder side of it pretty well. The tools genuinely help, but they also kinda made me realize the deeper question isn’t really about systems. It’s about whether I’m the only one who actually thinks about these people when they’re not in front of me.
I don’t want to stop being the friend who reaches out. But I also don’t want to spend the rest of my life feeling like I’m holding everyone together by myself. At what point do you accept that some friendships are just one-sided and let them go, vs keep showing up because that’s just who you are?
How do you handle this?
Not in a dramatic way lol. I'm not talking about big falling outs or anything like that. I mean people you genuinely like and would be happy to see and would pick up the phone for, and somehow it's just been like seven months and neither of you said anything
It hit me last week when an old friend popped into my head completely randomly and I realized I had no idea what was going on in her life anymore. Not because I stopped caring, I just stopped being reminded she existed if that makes sense. And then i felt kind of bad about it for the rest of the day.
I've tried so many things to be less bad at this. Notes app, a notion page i abandoned in like three weeks, even tried this thing called multiconnect app for a bit which is basically just nudges. Some of it helps a little. But honestly i think the real problem is that nothing in normal life tells you when a friendship is going cold. Like your phone will tell you when your screen time is up but it won't tell you that you haven't talked to your best friend in four months
Does this happen to other people too or am i just bad at being social
EDIT: I just made this Reddit account and apparently it's "too new to comment on posts in this channel" so I can't reply back to you guys here. I'll personally dm my responses :)