u/Acrobatic_Day8226

Yall are actually mad dirty wtf yall be doing in these bathrooms? Recreating the holocaust? Pearl Harbor 2.0? Jeez clean up after ur selves!!

Hey so quick background I’m 21M she’s 19F, we’ve been together for 2.5 months now and just lately I feel like I been getting turnt off, she’s extremely out there and bubbly and extroverted which is completely opposite of me I’m only extroverted when I need to like at work to leave good impressions but really deep down I freaking love my alone time and value my time for me it’s how I’ve lived for the longest ik how to enjoy my own company and overall just want to be in peace.
I’m sorry if this post is a bit long.

I’m an extremely busy dude I go to college and I work full time and on top of that managing my family business and go to the gym etc. I feel like I’m constantly playing catchup with this girl I like her a lot but she’s just extremely high maintenance she’s very emotionally needy which is not a problem or her mistake some people need more attention the others but if anyone is introverted a little like me they’ll know how draining that is. On top of that she’s so active on social media she’ll post like 5 pics a day on her story of her self and get into a bunch of political stuff online, as a person that likes his peace I feel like she’s too out there yk?

On top of that the last month or so she’s keep on hinting at the I love you word saying “I almost slipped and said a word I shouldn’t say till u say it first” and constantly does that and it’s purring me under pressure a little because to be honest I don’t feel like I’m anywhere near loving her yet. I’ve only loved once and I was scarred for a while so the whole love thing def isn’t that easy for me.

Lastly I just feel like there’s a maturity gap in the relationship, I’ve always been told I’m too mature for my age due to me been working ever since I was 15 and other events in my life with her I feel like she’s still stuck in high school in a way. Her biggest problems in life is her parents sending her on an errand or asking her to do a chore, while me on the other hand I got way bigger issues on my plate.

Again I don’t want to get this twisted I like her and I want it to work but I just don’t know what to do with all this..

Hey so quick background I’m 21M she’s 19F, we’ve been together for 2.5 months now and just lately I feel like I been getting turnt off, she’s extremely out there and bubbly and extroverted which is completely opposite of me I’m only extroverted when I need to like at work to leave good impressions but really deep down I freaking love my alone time and value my time for me it’s how I’ve lived for the longest ik how to enjoy my own company and overall just want to be in peace.
I’m sorry if this post is a bit long.

I’m an extremely busy dude I go to college and I work full time and on top of that managing my family business and go to the gym etc. I feel like I’m constantly playing catchup with this girl I like her a lot but she’s just extremely high maintenance she’s very emotionally needy which is not a problem or her mistake some people need more attention the others but if anyone is introverted a little like me they’ll know how draining that is. On top of that she’s so active on social media she’ll post like 5 pics a day on her story of her self and get into a bunch of political stuff online, as a person that likes his peace I feel like she’s too out there yk?

On top of that the last month or so she’s keep on hinting at the I love you word saying “I almost slipped and said a word I shouldn’t say till u say it first” and constantly does that and it’s purring me under pressure a little because to be honest I don’t feel like I’m anywhere near loving her yet. I’ve only loved once and I was scarred for a while so the whole love thing def isn’t that easy for me.

Lastly I just feel like there’s a maturity gap in the relationship, I’ve always been told I’m too mature for my age due to me been working ever since I was 15 and other events in my life with her I feel like she’s still stuck in high school in a way. Her biggest problems in life is her parents sending her on an errand or asking her to do a chore, while me on the other hand I got way bigger issues on my plate.

Again I don’t want to get this twisted I like her and I want it to work but I just don’t know what to do with all this..

You guys think we getting anything today🤔