Texting ex after 3 years NC
Ive been thinking about her a lot lately and i drafted a message. Can someone help me decide if I should send it or not. Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Hey, I hope you’ve been doing well.
You’ve been on my mind a lot lately, and I realized I still look back really fondly on the time we spent together. I’m genuinely grateful that we met when we did, and I still think of those years together as a really meaningful part of my life. To this day, you remain one of my favorite people I’ve been with.
I also want you to know that I don’t harbor any bad feelings about how things ended. At the time I was hurt, but with time I’ve come to understand that relationships are complicated and rarely black and white. I know we were both doing the best we could with where we were in life.
The truth is, I still care about you, and I’ve thought about you a lot lately. I’ve been fighting the urge to reach out for a long time, but I felt like I’d regret not at least saying something.
If you’d ever be open to talking or catching up sometime, I’d really like that. I feel like there’s a lot I’d rather say in conversation than dump into a long message.
And if not, I completely understand and respect that too.
I genuinely hope life has been treating you well.