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Hi !! Im 17 and im looking for some chill Minecraft servers that isn't pvp based and toxic, just a chill community server similar to a hermitcraft vibes

I dont mind if it includes roleplay and has an aesthetic, i also prefer if it has a voice chat mod and is centered around content creation since i just started my Minecraft youtuber journey! I REALLY REALLY prefer a server that's 17-18+ i dont wanna hang around people younger than me since i would be uncomfortable

I also want for it to be queer friendly with queer people too!

Hi im 17 and i have an ex who wont leave me alone.

For context. Ive met this guy from when i was 14, i was in a very vulnerable moment of my life and was currently in a relationship with another horrible guy who was way older than me , i also didn't really have a good life at home either. After he left i was pretty fragile (still am anyways) but he took this as a chance to take advantage of me , flirts with me and promises me things such as getting me away from my abusive parents and bringing everywhere

I fell for this because obviously i was a kid. He then tore me apart started using me inappropriately , making me cry from 12 am to 8 am because he wants to break up for me not wanting to send pics for a week. He gets mad so easily at me he brings up my trauma. I couldn't leave him because i was dependent on him since i couldn't just get out of my parent's house on my own , live everyday life by myself because i had really bad thoughts that took over me mentally. My past romantic relationships were the only things that *made me happy* at the time.

I also had "friends" during that time who i cut contacts with after years realizing they were assholes. Because to them it just was a online relationship, they didn't wanna help at all and just send messages like "omfg just block him or turn off your phone you're so easy to take advantage off"

After the breakup, i was depressed but did eventually tried to heal and move on. I had alot of failed situationships and relationships here and there but it lead me to just depending on myself on the age of 16-17 and being decently okay with being independent however within those 3 years he kept stalking my socials, trying to contact me and begging me to get back with him to the point of calling my local hospitals to check if im alive.

Its annoying and scary, ive TRIED to make new accounts and new contacts but he always find it somehow. And one time during a twitter conflict he tried to involve himself in and made the situation WORSE. He found my new socials AGAIN but this time i cant delete it

My past socials barely had any support or followers until now. Ive worked hard on my socials and every one of them have all my artworks and animation in them that throwing away THAT much work is too much, especially as someone struggling to get paid works.

Recently he left a message on my tiktok saying how he harmed himself and it made me so uncomfortable.

Confronting doesn't work because it will push him further to keep stalking me

Calling authorities on him wont work either because

1. I dont have enough evidence since all my accounts which includes the messages are deleted.

2. He lives in america and i dont.

3. Even if i am able to get authority involved, my parents will find out and will take away my stuff PERMANENTLY. Meaning i wont make money saving up to move out of my parents.

Hi im 17 and i have an ex who wont leave me alone.

For context. Ive met this guy from when i was 14, i was in a very vulnerable moment of my life and was currently in a relationship with another horrible guy who was way older than me , i also didn't really have a good life at home either. After he left i was pretty fragile (still am anyways) but he took this as a chance to take advantage of me , flirts with me and promises me things such as getting me away from my abusive parents and bringing everywhere

I fell for this because obviously i was a kid. He then tore me apart started using me inappropriately , making me cry from 12 am to 8 am because he wants to break up for me not wanting to send pics for a week. He gets mad so easily at me he brings up my trauma. I couldn't leave him because i was dependent on him since i couldn't just get out of my parent's house on my own , live everyday life by myself because i had really bad thoughts that took over me mentally. My past romantic relationships were the only things that *made me happy* at the time.

I also had "friends" during that time who i cut contacts with after years realizing they were assholes. Because to them it just was a online relationship, they didn't wanna help at all and just send messages like "omfg just block him or turn off your phone you're so easy to take advantage off"

After the breakup, i was depressed but did eventually tried to heal and move on. I had alot of failed situationships and relationships here and there but it lead me to just depending on myself on the age of 16-17 and being decently okay with being independent however within those 3 years he kept stalking my socials, trying to contact me and begging me to get back with him to the point of calling my local hospitals to check if im alive.

Its annoying and scary, ive TRIED to make new accounts and new contacts but he always find it somehow. And one time during a twitter conflict he tried to involve himself in and made the situation WORSE. He found my new socials AGAIN but this time i cant delete it

My past socials barely had any support or followers until now. Ive worked hard on my socials and every one of them have all my artworks and animation in them that throwing away THAT much work is too much, especially as someone struggling to get paid works.

Recently he left a message on my tiktok saying how he harmed himself and it made me so uncomfortable.

Confronting doesn't work because it will push him further to keep stalking me

Calling authorities on him wont work either because

1. I dont have enough evidence since all my accounts which includes the messages are deleted.

2. He lives in america and i dont.

3. Even if i am able to get authority involved, my parents will find out and will take away my stuff PERMANENTLY. Meaning i wont make money saving up to move out of my parents.