u/AbnormalMagkac87

So my gf (22F) of 2 months broke up with me (23M) because the past month we spent so much time together and one day she realized it was too much for her and then the excitement and the spark disappeared from her side. We had a talk and we agreed that we should not see each other that often for our relationship to last, but she distanced herself and a week later broke up with me. Let me say this. We are both to blame for the "rush" thing, we did it because we felt like it. We weren't that busy at this point of our lives so I thought it was Normal and when responsibilities occurred we would of course reduce our time together.

She said that she might be making a big mistake breaking up with me, but that's what she felt was right.

DO I BREAK NO CONTACT AFTER 2 MONTHS AND PROPOSE A CHILL MEETING?

So I have been dating this girl for a month and a half and two weeks ago we decided we are girlfriend & boyfriend. Then about a week ago she started being kind of weird like something was on her mind but when i asked her she said "i am thinking about some stuff, but don't worry it'll pass. The next day I started a convo with her about the fact that we were seeing each other too often, because i was worried we would get into a routine and it would kill our relationship. We had a great talk and we were both relieved afterwards and actually that was the thing that was bothering her, the fact we may have rushed things a bit. We decided we would reduce the time we see each other. So yeah here I am four days after that talk, I have given her space, which she told me she appreciates and we have gone out a couple of times, the vibes were not as good as before but I think it's normal. We do not text that much and we have stopped being sweet with each other. So my big question is : What do I do? I feel like i should be doing things, maybe tell her that this distance may not help our relationship or something. Please wise redditors, help me save my relationship!

Disclaimer: Please don't bother telling me to end it and stuff I think that's immature and it's not the point of this post.