u/ATKKSOO

I’m over the person that left me. Like I am fine not being with them anymore. I’m just not over the fact that they left. If that makes sense. Like the actual act of leaving me, how could u do that to your best friend, your soulmate, Your person. I don’t want to be a victim but I just can’t help but feel sad as of lately. Like damn. The person I loved the most in this world, the person I felt like I needed, made the decision to remove me out of her life. That’s what stings. I gave her my all. I am kinda scared to love again because i genuinely thought this girl would be my wife man. And fyi she left me to “work on herself”. I didn’t cheat. Yes we were going through rough patch as of arguing but never in a million years would I have thought to leave her. I’d rather go through 100 bad days with her than go through no days at all. 💔

I was in a 3 year really serious relationship. I thought I was going to marry this woman. We met when we were 16 and broke up when we were 19. She broke up with me. She was my best friend. I really thought I was going to marry this girl. This was my first true heartbreak. This was the worst pain of my life. I seriously felt like I couldn’t breathe with out her. I cried myself to sleep so many nights. She ultimately broke up with me to “work on herself” nd that eventually we would get back together. She made it clear that she wanted me no one else but just right now wasn’t the time. Hearing that from my best friend really hurt me man. For an entire year I was stuck on her. Occasionally texting her that I miss her / things of that nature. It always felt like I missed her more than she missed me. Couple months ago we rekindled and started back talking. She then told me while we were broken up she had a one night stand. Once she told me this it immediately broke me again. I can’t look at her the same. After hearing that she did that I don’t even want to be around her let alone see her. I just need to know am I over reacting? How can u break up with someone to “work” on yourself then go and have a one night stand. As a man , most men can agree we are very territorial especially with the woman we love And it’s like once u give that 🐱up I can’t ever look at her the same