Just trying to understand if trigger shot has anything to do with it.
I just had 3rd failed iui. It was ovidrel during first 2. No issues, this time I had lower abdominal pressure. I could even palpate it. Felt like ovaries were about to pop.
Hi, I need an explanation please.
So I had the readings with two different people. About my fertility issues. Context: I am 40+. Married at 40. So from biological point of view it makes sense why I struggle with fertility now. It’s not that I was escaping marriage when I was younger. I tried. I only had serious relationships. Didn’t work. Not even accidental pregnancy. For information I have no health issues diagnosed, it’s unexplained infertility.
So both readings say: I am meant to be mom. But because I am 40+ I have a free will not to. Then when I ask: but my will is to be mom. The answer is: God has a plan or Spirit works in a mysterious way. Isn’t it contradictory: so how’s it’s my will yet it’s God/spirit put me through this.
I’m naturally a 50/50 mundane person but not closed minded to spirituality.
Often times I would find my answers there rather than science and logic.
My husband and I were good kids to our parents. Easy, problem free as little children. Good students and we both had strong bonds with our parents. I care for my mom when she was in need since a very young age. I laid her to rest and even bathed her before letting her go. I wasn’t good to my dad although because he was violent and traumatized me.
My husband’s mom passed in his arms. He takes care of his father now. So do I. Now we’ve been struggling with infertility. Although no medical issues. We’re both so sure we are ready to parent.
So I was wondering what is the plan for people then who wanted but weren’t blessed by children.
I don’t know what I can do. This sucks so much!
Everything was strange about the third cycle. Low sperm count, low motility. Mood swings and hot flashes like crazy.
Not usual ovidrel but they used pregnyl. Procedure itself was painful unlike first 2, with spotting.
A few days ago I had a lower abdominal pain to the point I could palpate the tension. Today Day 11, test is stark white.
I can’t even work today. Can’t stop thinking about it.
I don’t consume alcohol, caffeine since months now. My nails look awful because I don’t even use nail polish, hair dye, can’t use retinol, not using anything that can affect my pregnancy. Taking tons of supplements, making sure that I sleep 8+hours.
What else I could do?! This is so annoying and frustrating.
Sorry if I triggered someone, I just need to talk to someone who can understand.