So, me (17F) and my mom have never been insanely close and this shows on the daily basis but she often finds herself talking to me about her day or some other stuff. Lately she's had a bunch of fights with my dad, which isn't so out of the ordinary since i would characterize their attachments as avoidant (dad) and anxious (mom). This time it led to them barely talking at home or in general about anything at all for almost 2 months. I've known about their problems either if i wanted to or not because my mom doesn't have actual friends to talk to about this stuff with so she's been telling me a lot more than i would like to know about her and my dad's relationship. I feel like these are the type of things you keep your kids out of.
One evening a few days ago, i heard them fighting in the kitchen for quite some time and my mom crying after a while. I waited for things to calm down before i went to kinda catch a glimpse of how bad it was as my dad left the room and i was left with my mom who turned to me and showed me her ringless finger as she told me she gave my dad an ultimatum; he changes the way he interacts with my mom (i guess talking about how affective he is with her or something) or it's over.
This left me so mad at my mom for telling me this mostly because i'm having a hard time myself with the relationship i'm in (also attachment style problems) and this was one of the last things i wanted to hear about my "role models". I haven't been the same with her or my dad ever since. Earlier today, my mom asked me to go on a walk with her and, as much as i wanted to say no, i felt bad not going and i promised myself i'd try to keep my mind off of it. Didn't happen. She tried having basic conversation with me and i couldn't help but keep my answers as blunt as possible. She started getting upset and said she changed her mind and that she wanted to go back home, which we did in complete silence.
I feel so much pent up anger and i honestly don't want to talk to her about it as much as i know i should. I'm just asking if i'm overreacting about this whole situation or not.