Hallo zusammen
Mich beunruhigt dieser Trend mit Smart Glasses, die Videoaufnahmen machen können, ohne das man es merkt.
Wie kann ich denn feststellen ob jemand so eine Brille trägt und ob er/sie gerade filmt?
Hi everyone,
I’m looking for someone who would be interested in helping me learn Persian. In exchange, I can help you with German or Swedish. German is my native language, and i am fluent in swedish.
A little bit about me:
I have Iranian roots through my father, who sadly passed away when I was a child. Because of that, I never had the chance to learn Persian growing up. I’ve always loved how the language sounds, and now I finally want to learn it properly, to reconnect with that side of my family and hopefully one day teach it to my own child.
Feel free to send me a message or comment here 🙂
Hi everyone
I have a one year old son and have recently spent more time with my female neighbour. She is usually nice and seems to appreciate our contact. But there was some weird situation last week that makes me want to avoid her and i would like to hear what you think.
We were at a cafe, her family and mine. She tried to get a hold of my son at every opportunity and wanted to have him walk around while holding onto her hands. Even when he went down on his knees because he was tired, she just pulled him up again and wanted him to continue. So, she totally ignored his need for a break and wanted him to do what she had in mind. I intervened when i saw that. Once they walked around the corner in the cafe and i couldnt see them. It made me feel a bit uncomfortable and i followed there. They were just walking around, but still. She then told me that i have to learn to let go of him now that he is already in that age. I got upset but didnt show it. She kind of lectured me about that i have to walk around with him like that more so that he learns to walk. I didnt in any ask for this advice and dont appreciate her telling me how to raise my child.
Later when it was time to say goodbye she picked up my son, cuddled him and said „it was so SO lovely to see you, (name). The way she hugged him and the tone of her voice was in such an extremely motherly way that it felt super inappropriate to me.
She has one kid and some years ago wanted one more, but couldnt get pregnant the normal way and didnt want to go doen ghe ivf route. I somehow feel that she projects her unfulfilled wishes on my child. And now i am wondering if she only wanted to hang out with me to get close to my kid.
I dont want my child to think that it is normal that neighbours get that close and cuddle him and talk to him like that. My husband also thought it was weird but is more like „well it doesnt harm our kid if she is being extra nice“.
I have since then stopped meeting her. What are you thinking, am i overreacting?
Hi everyone
I am trying to learn persian. When i try to read the word letter for letter i am reading it as „Aivan“, but according to the book it should be Ivan. What am i doing wrong? I thought it is an Alef in the beginning?
Hi everyone
I am in the beginning of learning persian and started with the alphabet. I can proudly announce that i already know how to recognise and write three letters (alef, nun, ye) 😄. I know it’s not much but i only have the short naps of my baby as studying time and started today.
While it is fun to get a grasp of the alphabet, i feel like i need my studying a bit mixed so that it doesnt get too theoretical.
So, i read somewhere that there is a famous persian children song and i found it on youtube. You find it when you look for „persian song my face“ and it is a yellow picture where it says „songs of pardis“.
Could somebody please write down the lyrics so that i can ask ChatGPT to translate it? I coudlnt find the exact lyrics online. And i would love to sing along for learning and that way my baby can learn it too.
If anyone else has recommendations for children songs i would be very grateful. I am half persian but unfortunately my father never taught me the language. He has died many years ago. And now that i have a baby i would love to teach some to the baby, once i learned it.
Thank you so much in advance 🙏
Hallo zusammen
Bisher ist das wirklich die einzige Strategie die hilft, meine 14 Monate alte Tochter zum Schlafen zu kriegen. Vorher ging es auch durchs Stillen, aber damit ich vor zwei Monaten aufgehört.
Man muss sie wirklich vor jedem Schlaf tragen bis sie einschläft, das ablegen klappt dann meistens. Danach muss man auch neben ihr liegen bleiben weil sie sonst nach 15 Minuten wieder aufwacht.
Grundsätzlich habe ich kein Problem damit sie in den Schlaf zu tragen, sie fängt nur so langsam an ziemlich schwer zu werden (hab ein Moppelchen) und ich habe Nackenprobleme.
Bin dankbar für eure Tips und Erfahrungswerte dazu wir ihr umgestellt habt. Es dürfen sich aber natürlich auch gerne Eltern melden die weiterhin tragen. Dann fühl ich mich zumindest nicht so einsam in der Situation 😅 von anderen höre ich nämlich eher das sie ihr Kind angeblich in dessen eigenes Bett legen und es dann von alleine einschlafen wurde nachdem man ein Buch zusammen gelesen hat 🫠
If yes, please share your stories. I am at crossroads at the moment to make a decision and feel like i am stuck.
Hallo zusammen
Ich plane gerade das Ich Buch für meine Tochter, die mit 18 Monaten in der Kita starten wird.
Wie habt ihr denn eure gestaltet? Kann man das irgendwie „aufpeppen“? Und habt ihr denn noch irgendwie Text oder sowas reingeschrieben? Den die Pädagogen dann vorlesen können? Und auf was habt ihr es denn gebastelt?
Ich überlege erst Fotos von Mama und Papa reinzumachen und dann mit Bildern (Fotos oder aus dem Internet gesuchte Bilder) eine Geschichte über den Tagesablauf. Also mit dem Kinderwagen zur Kita, dann spielen essen schlafen, dann kommt Mama und holt ab, dann spielen.
Oder macht sowas das Kind eher noch mehr traurig?
Hi everyone
I’m relatively new in the profession and looking for resources and approaches for working with clients dealing with problems related to building a family, especially:
- for individuals/couples with an unfulfilled wish for a first child
- specifically for my current case: a couple that already has one child. The birth process was traumatic and has left the woman with health risks that would bring potential life threatening risks for a next pregnancy. The woman has a hard time deciding if she wants to be pregnant again or not (it also involves an ivf treatment, but before that she would still have to undergo a surgery. And if a pregnancy happens it would be a high-risk pregnancy). I see strong feelings of grief in her when she talks about the struggle of coming to a decision and the potential scenario of only having one child.
Can you think of any recommendations for methods, literature, or trainings that you’ve found helpful?