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I have a crush on someone. I might pretend I don’t, but honestly, if he told me “I’m seeing someone,” I’d be crushed.

The situation is confusing, though. He kind of “promoted” our relationship from friends to friends+, and now I don’t know how to feel. I’m emotionally interested in him — I want to get to know him better, hug him, be close to him, maybe even kiss him and just be happy together.

But here’s the problem: doesn’t friends+ usually mean something more physical? I’m questioning myself because I’m gray-asexual, and I’m not sure how that fits into this situation.

When he told me, I felt kind of sick… but also happy at the same time because it means we’re closer. I just don’t know what to do with these mixed feelings.

I need some advice or opinions…

I have a crush on someone. I might pretend I don’t, but honestly, if he told me “I’m seeing someone,” I’d be crushed.

The situation is confusing, though. He kind of “promoted” our relationship from friends to friends+, and now I don’t know how to feel. I’m emotionally interested in him — I want to get to know him better, hug him, be close to him, maybe even kiss him and just be happy together.

But here’s the problem: doesn’t friends+ usually mean something more physical? I’m questioning myself because I’m gray-asexual, and I’m not sure how that fits into this situation.

When he told me, I felt kind of sick… but also happy at the same time because it means we’re closer. I just don’t know what to do with these mixed feelings.