Am I (22m) actually bi?
For some background, I (22m) have had sex with four men (three of which were from committed relationships) and one woman (a fling). I'm not much into hookups so that's kind of all I've done. I've identified as bisexual since high school because I never felt fully straight or fully gay. I've recently started dating a guy who is also bisexual and he's slept with a few women and a lot more men than I have. He's been with more guys he's had that experience with women to know that he's 100% bi, whereas I have not.
I know it's silly to say, but this has made me question my sexuality. I've definitely wanted to date women but it just didn't work out and my one experience with a woman doesn't actually fully secure me in my sexuality. There have been periods in my life in which I am only attracted to women and other periods where I am only attracted to men. The majority of porn that I watch is gay unless it's hentai which is REALLY confusing and strange to me lol. Am I really bi? Or am I just an undercover gay guy?
I don't know why I'm so bothered about any of this, I guess I just feel less bi or something because I've been with less women than him but I've also been with less men than him so maybe I'm just less experienced in general. I don't want to try stuff with women because I really like this guy but I guess I wish I would've tried stuff out before I met him.
I'm so uncertain now. Saying I'm gay feels so incorrect, but now I'm not sure if I can say I'm bi without feeling like a fraud.