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Being a nice guy only made my life worse than it is now. I was taught to be nice to others by my parents from a young age. Because of that I don't smoke, I don't drink, I workout, I am kind to others. All this and only to be used by others. Even because of these girls friendzone me. What's infuriating me is they say they want a green flag.. no a green f*cking forest and what they go for is the most red flag possible, so red it outreds the communist flag.

Seeing assholes get more than one girl and juggle them with ease gets me so angry. Here I am trying to improve myself to get a good girl and these assholes don't even try and get the greenest girls possible. What's worse is after these assholes dump them they think all men are like him and this will adversely affect us.

What I realised from all my years was that good girls get bad guys and good guys get 0 girls and even if they do they'll be the most red flag ever seen. I wanted to be like those assholes but my mind is so against it and it says keep being the kindest person possible for the love of the game. Bruh I hate this game

u/krv231 — 9 days ago
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I have this friend who's into smut. When I asked the difference between Smut and 🌽 she said there's a big difference and 🌽 is very disgusting. So one day I asked about what kind of smut she read and when reading that the shit left me baffled. I cannot explain the kind of things she read but it was kind of dark romance so some rough stuff was involved. Later I confronted her and told about smut being a disturbing version of 🌽 aval ente mekkittu keran thudangi. She said "Cornil aanel cheyyunnath kaanumbol orumaathiri varum" and the things she saw from my phone were some of the mildest things compared to the smut she read.

So I have an honest doubt to ask the ladies ee Smut literature roopathile 🌽 alle pinne entha randum different aanenn parayunne?

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u/krv231 — 12 days ago
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For me it's constant remarks from dad that i should start waking up at 5am , not been doing any efforts to find a job , always ask " mole epo joli avum " , and them saying " ente mon joli ayaloo , molu sherikum joli nokan para"

saying ena just go for any masters enn or go abroad as comments or saying I'm just lazy

Also aunt saying that " joli onum ayile, kalyanam kazhikan olla prayam ayii enoke , athu kazhinj jolik povam enoke "

Or otherwise tactics like " mole joli onu ayile , namku enthelm alliance aloikam or marriage proposals " talks everything start

At this point they're fed up of me no support they're saying I'm just lazy and not applying for enough jobs , and if I'm applying pinne entha joli kitathe en

Somedays i just cry looking at my state not getting a job and being stuck at home

Veetinu enaganelum poya mathi

Literally I'm tired of being at home but joliyuk kitunila

u/Technical_Map_3257 — 9 days ago
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M(20)Well today was one of my female friend's wedding so me and my friends were on the backstage all set to drink. I didnt planned to but since i felt too bad for no reason. So i thought lets try it for once. And somehow i end up having four pegs of whiskey.so there is this girl (22) where i met through my friend's mutual, we were talkin for 3months. Litterally vedio calls, hangouts, late night calls and shii. So after my friend's thaalikettu we went to backstage and had four more pegs. First i didnt felt that kick but at the second round i felt it really bad... My head was feeling clumsy and all.

So the first thing i did was texting her and all. She was calling me dumb and shii.then after the event program we went back to our hotel we had a vodka. I was totally vasted at that moment. But the thing is called her the moment before i got blackout. She recorded the calling since she knew i was drunk and wanted to bully with the dumb words im gonna spill on her. But the twist is i somehow proposed her and told her how beautiful she is and bullied about her accent

I woke up at 6pm and get back to home from thrissur. I reached home by 9pm got fresh up and slept. Around 10pm she called me and told me to come to her home. So i went. Her parents went out to her mom's hose. So we were alone. And after i reach her home she told me this stuffs and i was stunned to speak cause i do remember some stuffs except the propose part and other parts. She made me listen the recorded voice. And asked me whether i said do i really love her. At that point i couldnt hide the fact that im already building kind of feelings for her

After mu confession she litterally hugged me tightly and giggling then she kissed me for a long ahh moment. I was soo stunned 😭. She loves me alot and she had feelings from the second month itself. I still cant beleive this moment thass why i rant here no kannidal please she is litterally my type yall i cant lose her 😭🙏

Goodnight fellas i wish everyone had nice day

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u/New-Conference9626 — 10 days ago
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Like we all have heard thet phrase...it kind of felt real for me 🥲🚶‍♀️, i mean not always but yhaaa sometimesss🫠

Is it justt mehh....?

u/Red_And_AlwaysRed — 10 days ago
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Why do people hide their posts/comments when they’re already anonymous?

This is something I never understood about Reddit.

Most people here are already anonymous, yet some still hide or delete their posts/comments like they’re protecting a public reputation 🚶🏻

And the funny part is… half the time those posts can still be viewed through other ways anyway.

If you’re anonymous already, why bother hiding it?

Is it embarrassment, profile cleaning, post-regret, or what?

u/kuzhimandhi — 3 days ago
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Before the story i just loged in this acc after 9 months with 0 karma points so i can't post.i just made today 100+ karma to post this one up So coming to the stry,

So hi guys... Myself a 19M i just posted a story of my life in a sub.. About half an hour a genuine one dmed me like she was going through similar story and her story was she had many friends but hasn't met any genuine proposal or something like that she's having lots of male friends in college but no one feels a connection with her..And she was a person who studied in a girls school till 12th so she didn't met anyone /talks to guy in a good manner. She hate boys and she being rude to them..we just started to talk each other but i am not sure how much it goes because its reddit so i continued.. We begin to be close like she can tells anything to me and i am the person who loves to hear it... she's doing an internship now its end but on the last day someone from the office camed to her and like asked her number and such that.. You know her character well so she firstly just ignored it but the guy follows her..and one more thing she said he he's a Playboy and she didn't likes people like that how can someone ask number that we seen atfirst.. And she ended up by saying that this is how all good looking boys do.everyone is Playboy type and asked me that all boys are like this?Bro wym like i didn't asked her number. And i didn't tell anything bad from the moment i saw her because i don't want to and i was not a person like that.. And ig she fell for him and after that she cames and tells that she is felling angry and and i felt it was like a joke as usual and i told her like this will put in mine head as always you do Because she was a person like that and i seriously love that😭 i don't know why but i felt connection by seeing those single imperfectness in her life..so i am coming to the story that as i said the word earlier and her reply was like if you don't want to get saying those things go and block me and never message me.. Bro tf i had done as usual we talks like this and after 1-2 min else me/her will say sorry and continues as usual.. But this wasn't like that i felt something bad and my inner mind thoughts had come and like a new person had entired into her life so she doesn't wants me.. I was like i can't block you bcsue i don't want to do that am going to delete this account forever and she said yeah go on and atlast she said many things like a last message that you should grow high, you're wishes will comes true such that that felt me something and i just deleted my account bro😭my 2 years acc with 2k karma almost😭but that doesn't matters to me actually still now the thing affects me is that while talking several times she said that she has met me before somewhere else and i also feels liks that all these were completely dillusions maybe but we're the persons with same mindset ig.. And she always tells i am really a good person.. I don't know what to tell you guyzz but in my whole life i didn't met a person who is having a deep connection like this And if you're seeing this srry for wt i did its just a matter of hurry up in life that shatters🥹💔

Help me to reach her guyz 🥹💔

u/alter_ego_47 — 8 days ago
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I’ve been seeing this more and more lately and it’s honestly making me sick. I saw a post recently about people moving out of Kerala and visiting home like once or twice a year, and it’s become the new normal.

I live in Bengaluru, and I see it happening all around me. People move here for the high paying tech jobs and the lifestyle, but they don't even try to take their parents with them. They just leave them back home to age in empty houses, or worse, they look for good old age homes so they don't have to deal with the responsibility.

Maybe it's just my Indian brain but I can’t digest this. As an eldest and only son, the idea of doing this feels like a betrayal. These are the people who sacrificed everything for us, and the moment we get a bit of money and freedom, we run away from the responsibility of looking after them?

I hear all the usual excuses privacy, "my spouse won't agree," career growth, etc. But let’s be real it’s mostly just being selfish. We’re copying the West in the worst way possible.

I don't know, maybe I’m being too traditional, but I don’t think independence should mean leaving your parents to fend for themselves when they’re old and vulnerable. How do you even sit in a cafe here in Bengaluru or live in a fancy apartment knowing your parents are alone in Kerala?

Is it just me? Am I the only one who thinks we’re losing our humanity for the sake of a modern lifestyle? Would you guys ever actually do this? Because I personally can't.

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Before people misunderstand this again, let me clarify something first:

I am NOT talking about abusive parents, toxic households, childhood trauma, financial struggles, career survival, or people forced by circumstances to live away from family. I completely understand those situations, and people have every right to protect their peace and build their lives.

What I’m talking about is something else entirely.

I’m talking about well settled adults who could stay emotionally connected to their aging parents, check on them, spend time with them, support them when needed but slowly choose not to because responsibility feels inconvenient.

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u/muktharhere — 8 days ago
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i feel her a little too much that i lose sleep thinking of how she is navigating without proper support from her family. apparently even her parents blame and ignore her sometimes asking her to go d*e. the guy has moved on and is well off abroad. living his best life.

honestly… what is this world? how can such people ruin innocent lives and sleep like it’s nothing

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u/oreosssssssss — 9 days ago
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Do you guys have an imaginary BF/GF or wife/husband in mind?

Like sometimes before sleeping, randomly imagining someone beside you and just talking, laughing, teasing, romancing. It could be a celebrity crush as the face claim or a completely imaginary person your mind created.

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u/NegativePotential574 — 7 days ago